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Home Movies?

Do you have home movies of yourself from when you were growing up?

Sadly, the ones my parents had of us got ruined. My mom only discovered it recently and was heartbroken over it. The basement had taken on some water a few years back and the box of tapes was on the floor for some reason. She didn't realize it until recently that the tapes had gotten damaged. I want to make sure when I have kids, all the pictures and videos are kept safe. It sucks I can't show my kids the videos though. It didn't hit me at first but it really does suck.

Have you ever done an LDR?

I am not sure if this was a topic that was discussed here already or not. I am curious to see if anyone has had a successful LDR though.

I am not talking about living within driving distance but actually needing to fly out to see each other. Like a long-distance relationship that is MILES away.

I feel like for people who do this, especially dating in separate countries, there has to be such a level of trust and commitment there. I feel like most people wouldn't be able to handle this kind of relationship mentally or emotionally. I don't know if I could do it myself.

Tired of these Bowie Kuhn's

Man it's time we get these folks from the CBC and Black bootlick mayors out the paint. TBA laid out the blueprint. I think right before next year's mid terms Black people in all these Black Faced ran cities need to put up billboards to expose these Kuhn's and make Black people think twice about voting for them next year. Catfish Clyburn, Maxine Waters, Sheila Lee Jackson, Corny Booker, Slyvester Turner.....etc. We could bomb their districts with a billboard and put them on front street. Then the WS will break their tools once they see they are no longer influential in our community. I'm gonna be pushing this idea as much as I can because if we all put in a little work in our underserved districts we can expose and oust these traitors.

Ever date a friend's family member?

Have you ever tried to date a friends brother, sister, or other relative? I was really into my friends sister back in high school, but I never dared to try to ask her out, especially with my friend being around, as he was always annoyed when friends talked about her. I was really into her though, but never attempted to make a move.

Would you though if you really were into her? Or would you be a good friend and leave it be?

Blair Witch parody with all black cast

This may be a long shot, because I swear I remember a movie like this. This was back in the early 2000s. I remember there was a few Blair Witch Project parody films that came out soon after. I remember one that had an all black cast. I think there was a couple rap artists in it, but I completely am drawing a blank on it. I'm pretty sure it might have been an HBO movie as well, or short. But I can't find anything on it.

The closest thing I came to, was The Black Witch Project, which was about military rejects who go on some retreat according to imdb. After second thought, it might actually be the correct movie.

Oh damn, I think it is this one:

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I was young when I watched it, so for all I know it probably hasn't aged well. I just thought at the time it was so damn funny. But the quality looked a lot better than the video above. But I doubt there's a way to purchase this these days.

Women paid off house, finds out she was scammed

This is depressing news, but it seems to be a scam that happens a lot these days. This woman got a small house all her own, an lease to own type deal, where it would cost her $15,000 for it. She thought she had paid it off and was now a homeowner, but she lated received an eviction notice from the people who actually owned the house/property. She was scammed by someone pretending to be the owner, to which she sent monthly payments to.

On top of that, she has made repairs to the property, as it was badly damaged when she took it over.


I bet someone will do a gofundme for her after heard about this. If not, someone should. Messed up that this sort of thing happens so often. I guess it's really bad in Detroit.

Harassment At Work

I luckily haven't, but my best friend is going through it right now. She works at Amazon and is trying to get out as soon as she finds another job. I think it's been everything from implied racial comments to just making her uncomfortable while she's working. I know she's been to HR but they don't seem to want to do anything. Have you ever dealt with any harassment at work? How did you deal with it?

Black Friday Shopping

Do you usually go Black Friday shopping? A few years ago, I went out after Thanksgiving dinner, but I didn't enjoy it. The lines were long and the deals weren't even all that great. Plus, after all of that cooking, I'm ready to relax at home lol If anything, I'll look at the deals online which are usually the same anyway. My aunt and her daughter used to wake up at 5am on Black Friday just to hit the mall, which doesn't sound fun to me at all haha

When should someone propose?

I’ve seen so many posts on social media with women saying they have the “sauce” because their man proposed within 6 months. Other women left comments about being proposed to within a month. Cute, but that’s way too quick for me. What’s the rush? Would that be a red flag for tou

Some people can wear a mask and not reveal who they really are until much later in a relationship.

I think people should know within 6 months and propose between 12-24 months.

I would want to be with someone during every season first. We need to see the different emotions, how they are with their family and friends, how we communicate through the difficult moments, etc.


What do you think?

How to tell the difference between virtue signaling and meaning well?

I don't have a hard time with this irl but online, it can be a bit hazy. I always see white people supporting blacks and black communities but I know for sure a lot of them are just doing it to make themselves look better and feel better which is a cop-out and pathetic to me. I know there are some who sincerely mean well and I don't want to mix them up. How can you tell the difference online?

Sista Girl Kamala Harris is Supposedly Doing Horribly

I’m not going to subject y’all to the whole article but here are the standout parts:
(CNN)Worn out by what they see as entrenched dysfunction and lack of focus, key West Wing aides have largely thrown up their hands at Vice President Kamala Harris and her staff -- deciding there simply isn't time to deal with them right
Many in the vice president's circle fume that she's not being adequately prepared or positioned, and instead is being sidelined. The vice president herself has told several confidants she feels constrained in what she's able to do politically. And those around her remain wary of even hinting at future political ambitions, with Biden's team highly attuned to signs of disloyalty, particularly from the vice president.
She's perceived to be in such a weak position that top Democrats in and outside of Washington have begun to speculate privately, asking each other why the White House has allowed her to become so hobbled in the public consciousness, at least as they see it


Extra Credit

All politicians blather, but Harrisblather is like an air salad with vapor croutons and nullity dressing. She went all the way to France to offer insights like, “We must together. Work together. To see where we are. Where we are headed, where we are going and our vision for where we should be. But also see it as a moment to, yes. Together, address the challenges and to work on the opportunities that are presented by this moment.”

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