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In terms of the physical body, what are some things you find most attractive about men or women (or both)?

For me, I have always preferred taller men. This is not to say I have not dated shorter men, I just have a preference for height. I like to feel small. I know that sounds silly but it is true. I also prefer fit men but I have dated a few fat guys in my day. Again, this was about feeling smaller. Obviously well dressed and groomed is a staple. No one wants to date a man who can't take care of themselves. I like strong hands, bright eyes, clear soft skin, and thick hair on a man.

I used to watch the NBA and the NFL. I was never big into baseball, hockey, MMA, or any of the other sports though but I did love basketball and football at one point. As I got a bit older, I started losing interest. I don't think I watch a full season of the NFL since 2013 and I stopped watching the NBA back in 2015. I have had no desire to pay attention to either sport. Anyone else have this happen with sports?

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I know in music, it was not always the case. There have been plenty of female singers who sung songs about love, softness, femininity, loving their men etc. but it seems like in the '90s everything switched. There was more of a focus on promoting women "not needing no man" and it seems like the majority of female artists be them singers, rappers, or whatever always have songs that preach about women having the money, the control, and the power in the relationship.

When did this become the norm though?

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So this was a thing...

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Faith Evans from what I have read she has always been a slut, she had sex with Tupac and Stevie J's acting like she is some angel-- some women are not marriage material just saying.

Did anyone catch tonight’s TBA broadcast? He was talking about the accomplishments of Richard Williams and how some people in white Society have been trying to bash him, while what Venus and Serena Williams ended up doing with their lives is up for question the accomplishments of Richard should not be denied regardless of how they turned out. I myself do not agree with Venus and Serena‘s lifestyle choices but it doesn’t take away from Richard‘s greatness, but what do you guys think?

If you're one of the individuals who took advantage during the craze I hope you have your paperwork. If not, the state is coming after you. @Jay I hope you were smart enough to not take part in the shenanigans.

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I'm rare to medium rare guy personally, I might do medium at the highest but that's it. I used to be a well done guy but I tried medium rare ish once and never looked back

Why not ask them what they have tangibly done for black LGBT? If BLM for example, is a black LGBT organization, what have they done for black LGBT specifically? Do they not think reparations for them is the best thing that can happen to solve their problems? And if it is good for them, isn't it good for all of FBA?

It seems to me that if black LGBT can be used against black people as a whole, the reverse is also true. If the CBC wants to close the LGBT wealth gap, should they not be asked what they want to do to close the wealth gap between white LGBT and black LGBT?

Of course, the answer to these questions is nothing. They have not done nor do they want to do anything for black LGBT specifically. Why? Because it opens the door to conversation about doing things specifically for black people as a whole. This appears to me to be an easy way to expose them to black LGBT and drive the conversation back to FBA as a whole. The path of least resistance, "yes and" instead of "no".

Reminds me of the famous Kamala Harris interview: "… I'm going to do something that's only gonna benefit black people, no." In the same breath, she says "Any policy that benefits black people, benefits all of society."
So by her own logic, Reparations for FBA benefits all of society. She's not trying to but logically, she is saying she's not going to do anything that only benefits black people because it's literally impossible. Using her own words, it is illogical for her to not be for Reparations. She is defeated by her own words.

I think that's typical, Obama did the same thing in some interview I saw: he made a case in the negative regarding tangibles for black people but his conclusion was completely illogical if anything he presented to come to his conclusion was taken into account. And nobody said anything. He, just like her, said something that made absolutely no sense and the interviewer just moved on.
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Even critics don't point it out. Kamala just made the case FOR Reparations but no one ever points that out when they bring up this clip.

This seems unrelated (maybe) to the original topic, but it points to the same thing: I believe in our resistance, we sometimes overlook inroads to our point the opposition themselves have made for us. We overlook the "anything they say (or do) can be used against them."

Do you think it's possible to overcome mistrust in a relationship? Personally, it would be hard for me to trust someone again after they've shown me that I can't trust them. I think I start pulling back without even realizing it, and then it's just time for it to end. I think if both want to fix it, it's probably possible, though.

i seen this last night and was crackin up.. wwyd?

Barber lip prank

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I always wonder what's going on with people to make them think like this. FYI: Venus and Serena produced the movie.

Don't ever stop OGUN from his summon.

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There are a lot of bad games mixed among some of the best games ever. Some games are worse than others, like Superman 64 on the N64, ET for the Atari, Sonic 06, Aquaman for the gamecube and more. But what is a game that you specifically had a horrible time playing? The last few Madden games were pretty bad, but I think for me, Sonic 06 was the worst game for me. I'm into Sonic, have been since I was a kid, but the fact that they destroyed Sonic with this game, I have much hate for how awful this game was. And it doesn't help that most of the games that followed weren't that better.

But, what games do you remember being awful?

Since there was an additional game added to the season, making seasons go to 17 games instead of the 16 we had the years before. There's a big chance that some records will be broke this season just because of that extra game. I know Derrick Henry was looking like a front runner for getting the rushing record, but he went out injured recently, so I don't see that happening now. But do you guys think any other players will end up breaking records this year?

I know not at a young age, because honestly, we're too damn dumb when we're young and let lust for someone push us to getting married. I have waited my whole life so far for marriage and I think I can wait a little longer. There's no rush for me. Reason why, is because I've seen so many friends and family get married way too soon, and in turn, they end up getting divorced or they start to go to therapy to save the marriage.

I've decided I'm waiting a bit longer. I'm dating a girl I really like right now, but the idea of getting married is a far ways off right now. When I do eventually ask that question, I want to be certain she is the one. Ya know? Like I ain't going to rush into marriage right away, not like my friends and family who already made that mistake.

For you, when do you think you'd want to get married? If you're not married already that is.

That's a lot of smoke.

Yall have a nice day 😉

In terms of what you have/hold high value for - Which is the most important for you?

1. Physical intimacy // affection // sex
2. Emotion support // conversation // bonded intellect
3. Finacial stability // support // being provided for

Assume trust is included in any of these. If you had to pick which one you valued the most, which would it be and why?

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Let's face the biggest lie. It's desirable for a man to "have something" in order to really get the ladies bucking.

A dude with his toes showing can snag a bad lil mama. Exhibit #1.

Is this you @Jay ?😂

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How can you square the previous with Exhibit#2.

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Nobody wants to live in a tin can. I get that but if I asked her every month for half of my/our bills, could she come up with it and feel like the song says?

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