If I had kids, there are a few things that will happen:
1. Boy or girl, my kid(s) will learn to code at at least 2 languages before they enter HS preferably but definitely before the graduate HS.
2. My kid(s) will take self defense classes, whatever discipline they can handle from ages 7 - 9 or 10. That white boy or girl will only bully my son or daughter once.
3. They will start learning chess as early as they can comprehend it.
4. We will take a trip to west Africa a couple times (likely Senegal and Ghana) before they graduate HS.
5. They will be constantly surrounded by black things in the home, books, movies, any black affirming things as well as hearing black affirming talk, and pride in themselves. If its a white area they will be in programs, teams with black kids.
6. They will learn to speak, read and write with a fair command of Spanish and Mandarin Chinese. Some Swahili.
7. Math tutors early, they will get a lot of math. A lot.
8. They will see their parents reading and have a family book club where they get something, money or gifts for finishing books and then we discuss it.
If I'm paid like that and I'm in a white area, home schooled till middle or high school. While being home schooled join team sports, with black kids.