Recent content by The_Nsurgent

If you live in an area where the cost of living is high I could see paying around $200 to $250 for a nice date. However, if I'm paying then I set the price cap. A lot of women don't value a man's effort if he doesn't spend a lot of money.

No, she never did. Even if she had I would not have wanted her back. The damage done to the relationship was too severe to recover.

European is more tied to nationality, White is mostly tied to ethnicity.

I tried both positive and negative reinforcement. Neither was successful in my situation.

I tried being supportive and encouraging to my ex-wife concerning her losing weight but her attitude was so hostile I eventually had to give up. (There were other factors that contributed to the hostility between us.) I tried to lead by example by being more active around her. I tried to...

Black men have an internal desire to help Black women but the discord between us is so extreme that black men have been attacked and even killed for trying to do what's right. So we have to weigh the risk versus the reward for getting involved. The reality is the reward isn't worth the risk...

You inform that person that you notice a change in their mindset or behavior. If it is destructive or can become destructive, point it out as so and talk to them about the cause. Not addressing it is not a viable option. Confront the issue while its small before its too big to handle amicably...

I see that too but these youngster trying to twist the spiritual environment to fit them and I've seen old heads try to "evolve" themselves to attract young people, especially young black men. Bible says "Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and today, and forever. Be not carried about with divers...

That's why the country is on the downfall, Revelation 18 is the Judgement of this land

Short answer: No. The vast majority of churches are flat-out wrong in their contextual understanding and teaching of what the bible says. Everything must be filtered through what Christ said and did. Christ gave the doctrine, the apostles structured the church. These churches today doing their...

Were are living amongst a confused and lost generation. Seek God while he still may be found and I pray for the healing of her mind and spirit.

As I cruise through the online streets of social media all I see at every turn is posts and panels of black men and black women going at each other’s throats. Black men won’t do this, black women won’t do that. So much of the arguments are centered on what we disagree with but very rarely is a...

It's easier to move through life knowing people like you. We naturally let our defenses down when we believe we are liked. if we know we are hated or disliked it forces us to remain defensive most of the time expecting our haters to strike at any moment. However, if you have to act out of your...