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Study Says 60% of Spouses Will Cheat at Least Once

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    I haven't investigated the source which is: healthresearchfunding.org but I'm concerned with the number being so high. If we take these numbers at face value we have to ask:

    1. Are we lying to each other regarding monogamy? Is it against human nature?
    2. Do we live in a generation where people want to have their cake and eat it too?
    3. Are people getting into monogamous relationships for the wrong reasons?
    I think it's a blend on 1 and 3. I think SOME people lie about their ability to be monogamous and that some people engage in monogamous relationships for the wrong reasons.
     
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    That’s a high number wtf. The questions you posed are important and I think humans always have a desire to want what they don’t have. When it’s hot AF we want the cold, when it’s snowing we want the heat. When we’re playing the field we one person we can trust, when we get one person we can trust we want to play the field. I think the key to monogamy is understanding this constant desire for what you don’t have and being honest about your ability to tame it. If you can’t don‘t tell someone you’re going to be monogamous because you’re not.
     
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    The template looks professional and appears to have promising results. However, I'm curious to know who exactly they surveyed to receive these results? Are the results biased? How many men vs women did they survey? Let's say they surveyed a total of 100 men and 50 women, the results are skewed. In all honesty, I feel as if these results are skewed and aren't as accurate as the template makes them appear.
     
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    They have done well with the analysis and results of those in marriage, I think that now is the time for them to put more effort into analyzing what happens in relationship out marriage, knowing that it's definitely going to be very technical because relationships operates from a different dimension when compared to marriage.
     
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    People meet at parks, at parties and even at clubs and have causal sex. The disregard for what sex means in marriage has become the main reason married men and, recently, women cheat. The numbers stated here is simply highlighting the impact of social media on marriages in America. Something needs to be done to address this abnormality.
     
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    I don't have any problems with my partner cheating on me but the only thing you should pray for is that I should never find out because the moment I do, I wouldn't care about whatever your reasons may be, it's the end of our relationship no matter how many years we have come.
     


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