On my way to work the other day, some radio show was talking about the rise of male gold diggers in the black community.
I have not noticed it myself but apparently, since ladies are out there getting their degrees and getting good-paying jobs, a lot of men have switched things up and they have become gold diggers looking to leach off successful ladies.
Is this really a growing trend or was this show blowing things out of proportion?
To a degree, it has been happening for awhile and I don't see how it will benefit society in the long run as this is not what nature intended. Faux feminism (sexual "liberation", "I can do
anything a man can do if not better", "
I'm independent and can pay my own way") and bastardized meninism (
"women are such golddiggers man and they have it so easy, we should be making them pay our way", "
lol it would funny to see feminism backfire as we use feminism and the gender role swap to our advantage", "
sex robots and overseas women ftw, bye femoids") is slowly eating women alive and stifling the growth of transforming males into men in our society because we are now seeing more female workplace burnout, "high reward = low risk" for the males as well as the "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" mentality being enforced and encouraged.
Have you ever heard about hobosexuality and how many women house, feed, and give money and resources to unachieving, low achieving males? Or about the stay at home dads and dudes earning minimum wages while their girlfriends / wives are doctors, nurses, etc? Or how women will help support and build their men up only for their dudes to leave them for someone else (like another woman or even a guy)? The gender roles have been swapped for the worse.
Some males feel emasculated or some type way when they take on the female role in their relationships while other males are happily getting spoiled and having their cake and eating it too without remorse. In some cases, some of these males will gladly take advantage of certain women. This also includes professional working males as well. I have even read about how this high earning male professional would live in his wife / girlfriend's house without paying anything while stacking his money on the side and refusing to let her access his money. Basically, he made and manipulated his girlfriend/wife into paying his way 100% of the time while the guy covered 0% of the expenses and bills. Some of these dudes will justify using th women because "the EcoNOmy iS BaD", "sHe'S oKaY WiTh iT" or some other lame excuse. The financial abuse and mind games are real.
