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Woman called her brothers on her boyfriend and then this happens
Omg😱what did i just watch? I am the only girl among 3 brothers,but the last thing i will ever do is to report my hubby to my brothers. Whatever issue we have,we settle amongst ourselves . Wow
This video is disturbing however, I want to use it do dispel a huge lie that black feminists have been trying to say about black men. "Black men can't/won't protect us"
This video is proof. There are literally 1000s of black men either dead, in jail or in the hospital because someone said or laid hands on their sister, girlfriend, moms, play cousin, homegirl, whatever. It's a cliche`. Black men have ALWAYS protected their own. Furthermore, have you ever seen a video where a cop shot a black woman in front of the black male in the car? I've never seen it but once and that is Breonna Taylor and the boyfriend clapped back and shot one of them. I've seen black men get shot in front of black women but not the other way around save that one time. Maybe its happened elsewhere, but I've never seen it.
Why haven't we seen it? My guess is even white cops know this is too much and there is no way he can keep a black man from killing him after him seeing him kill his wife, sister, mom, daughter, etc.
This video is proof. There are literally 1000s of black men either dead, in jail or in the hospital because someone said or laid hands on their sister, girlfriend, moms, play cousin, homegirl, whatever. It's a cliche`. Black men have ALWAYS protected their own. Furthermore, have you ever seen a video where a cop shot a black woman in front of the black male in the car? I've never seen it but once and that is Breonna Taylor and the boyfriend clapped back and shot one of them. I've seen black men get shot in front of black women but not the other way around save that one time. Maybe its happened elsewhere, but I've never seen it.
Why haven't we seen it? My guess is even white cops know this is too much and there is no way he can keep a black man from killing him after him seeing him kill his wife, sister, mom, daughter, etc.
Anytime I have had issues with someone I was in a relationship with, I could have easily called my older brother or father. I never did cause I know damn well they would HURT the dude.
All modern feminists are morons. Don't matter what skin color they have. They act like men are always the problem even when they are the ones out there being hoes and trying to act like men.
If he ain't treating you right, leave him. If you have to bring people over to fight him then he's not worth your time. Now two brothers are possibly dead because of some drama she most likely was involved in. What's even worse is that she is probably going to stay with the man too.
That's probably what the woman in the vid thought, too. She didn't count on her boyfriend coming from the hip.
I'll bet anybody that the couple was arguing over something small, and the woman called her brothers over. I've seen women go from 0 to 100 over the tiniest things, and that brother card gets played A LOT.
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I agree with you; but you moved the goalposts to a whole different country! That was one hell of a pivot.
That's always why we as men need to not be emotional. If her and her man are going through something we need to be able to stay rational and give her the proper course of action. Obviously there are times where it has to go down but not every single time. If a family member is with an abuser the first question should be "are you ready to pack up and leave right this minute?" If the answer is no, you have no business taking your ass over there to fight. Because you will fight her man and she'll be having sex with him later that night.
A man could bring home the wrong brand of ice cream and his woman will turn up over it. That same woman will call somebody to fight her man, and often use a lie as the bait to get her boyfriend/husband beat up. There are even women who will make up a lie and call the police on her mate, even if the man has done nothing.
If a brother/cousin/cop receives that phone call, they're not pulling up to have a rational discussion and assess the situation. Nine times out of ten, somebody is going to get hurt.
I'm saying that the rational conversation needs to take place when the call in placed. When she calls saying "F this nigga up" I'ma be like: "heeeeey, heyyyy...we not going straight to violence based on your beck and call, what's going on?" That's when you have to use your masculine energy to bring some calmness to the situation. If he is hitting her you need to see if she is willing to leave. If she's not then the best thing is to talk to her man and tell him to stop.
I agree that the rational conversation needs to take place; but things almost never happen that way, unfortunately. In most cases, violence occurs.
We don't know what though. Because no one is posting videos of them having rational conversations.
You said they almost never happen. I said, we don't know that because nothing bad arises which warrants a video. At the end of the day, the men in these situations need to keep their emotions out of the situation and handle it logically to avoid situations as the one in the video. Domestic violence are some of the most dangerous calls for police so it's even more dangerous for the average person.
This is exactly where I have my stand in any kind of romantic relationship. Once it's not mutual to both of you anymore, just walk away with your peace and everything intact. I don't understand why one would be in a relationship for it to get to the point where you get physical.
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That's what happens when our solutions to everything is violence against ourselves. The amount of times I've seen sisters get into it with somebody and say they're gonna get their brothers/ father/ uncle/ boyfriend etc on someone and escalate the situation is too high to count. Some situations definitely require action and violence, but half of the situations where people are being called on to jump somebody aren't that. Then the same people that'll escalate situations to the point of no return will be on the news talking about the amount of violence and death in our neighborhoods. We've gotta figure out more efficient ways to deal with each other.
You never want to get in between that. You step up and beat the sucka to a pulp and a week later she calling that nigga daddy again. I seen it too many times. When it comes to domestic violence I stay out of it. If someone hit my daughter or mom that's one thing but a cousin or sister I'm going to have to do the:
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I agree with that point of view. At the end of the day, we've gotta treat people like adults and not put ourselves in harm's way for their decisions. No matter how much you talk to some people or steer them away from these toxic relationships, they always seem to find themselves right back in them.You never want to get in between that. You step up and beat the sucka to a pulp and a week later she calling that nigga daddy again. I seen it too many times. When it comes to domestic violence I stay out of it. If someone hit my daughter or mom that's one thing but a cousin or sister I'm going to have to do the:
That is my issue with modern feminists. They blame men for everything while claiming victims in every event. That is not the way life should happen as I believe that as long as domestic violence is not involved, every relationship issue can be resolved amicably.
The way they are these days, it takes away from actual victims. Just like those white liberals going around calling EVERYTHING racist and speaking on black people's behalf. You are just causing more racism to occur - modern feminists distract and cause more domestic violence because people just ignore the real stuff when it happens!