From the Peak Value Man video from the Business, I want to know how do I live an active and interesting life? Also, how do I improve my game?
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That is such a huge question start us off with a baseline:
- Age
- Location
- Hobbies
- Career Field
- Goals
- Academic Achievement/degree
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educatedman23
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- 22
- DFW, moved here this year and don't know anyone except coworkers
- Gym, Anime, Boxing fan
- Software Engineering
- Become an excellent Front end engineer; when I get enough capital I'll get in the hotel/ restaurant industry
- BS Information Systems
If you ask me I think you’re getting off to a good start. I think the things you need to focus on more than anything is leveling up your education and your money. When you up your money it allows you to afford more and greater experiences e.g. traveling, fun activities, great eateries and that will help you become more interesting.
The most important aspect of “game” is confidence, without that you will be one of those negros flying to Brazil to get laid. Now how do you increase your confidence level? You do it by creating a demonstrable track record of success in whatever you do. Why does the best mechanic in town have confidence? Because every car that runs through his shop leaves in better condition then it arrived and his customers make it clear by returning. He develops a demonstrable track record of success with each car he fixes.
So that helps you get confidence in yourself but how do you get it with women? The same way you do with everything else, practice. Your confidence in yourself gives you the guts to approach but the smoothness and game gets refined only through approaching multiple women.
But all this rests on your ability to provide. If your money is funny, if you’re living check to check…all this becomes much more difficult. Some spots to check out:
- Canvas Hotel- Lamar street rooftop bar
- Hotel Zaza
Women are fine tuned to smell the broke and dusty on us men so if we aren't moving how we supposed to they will see it. Gotta get the chips up there's no way around it.
The only thing that needed is to get out of your own way. The single biggest obstacle that any person has to overcome is themselves.
How does this look in an actionable way for a young man? How does he get out of his own way? How does he have to overcome himself? We as older people may understand what this means looking backwards but his whole adult life is ahead of him so it may not make any sense.
The whole learning process is making mistakes and learning from them. And that's kinda where I was eluding to. "Getting out of your own way" means making mistakes and learning from them in the process.