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Do Men Have it Wrong? Is “Nice Guy" Actually "Creepy Guy"?

Red Velvet

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    IDK how to answer this question. But plenty men can come off creepy. Most people think they are better than the next.
    I’m with you on this sis. Some nice guys aren’t creepy they just lack a spine. A lot of nice guys force me to make a choice which I don’t like. I’m indecisive, if we are trying to find a place to eat I sometimes need my man to make an executive decision.

    When he refuses to do so because he doesn’t want to offend me I’m instantly turned off because I’m with someone who cannot lead.
     

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    I came across this while surfing the net at late hours. What do you think, is there merit to it?
    I think it's accurate in a few cases but I would think that overall a lot of nice guys typically gotta work on themselves and level up. A lot of these dudes are lame and broke and woman can smell it a mile away. They want women to look at them as a charity case which doesn't work because women want to know that getting with you is going to increase them in some way.
     

    lexodyssey

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    IDK how to answer this question. But plenty men can come off creepy. Most people think they are better than the next.
    Yeah I agree. Of course there are nicer guys out there but a lot definitely come off creepy. I feel like a lot of guys that label themselves as the "nice guy" tend to overstep boundaries right off the bat.