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Mud City Savage · 8/30/21

I am someone who likes to stay in and party, maybe with some friends, get some drinking done, hang out and game, the usual. Maybe catch some football games on Sunday as well. But I don't usually ever go to the club or to bars. With covid it has been a bit tough anyway. But my friends have been asking me to go to the club soon, and maybe meet some ladies. I don't really want to, because I never have been one for going to the club. I don't mind going to the bar every once in a while though.

No judgement if you want to go to the club or a bar. More power to ya I think. I just want to know your preferences. What do you prefer?

RedMoon · 8/31/21

Yeah I'm not much of a club or bar person - I'd rather stay in with friends like you said. I guess it's fine from time to time but I don't make a habit of going.

Invincible1914 · 8/31/21

Man I hate going out. I can the movies or a restauran, something hanging out the family. But clubbing? In 2021. Naw no thank you.

eclipsed · 8/31/21

I like hybernating away from people anymore. I used to like social events but I would much rather sit at home and "grow mold" as my mother always tells me. lol

Jay · 8/31/21

I love going to wineries and other chill spots that facilitate good conversation. Going partying and stuff is old to me and super expensive.

Bruh Man · 9/1/21

too much drama in the nightlife, if I aint with my homies I’m on the 5th floor.

fastandcurious · 9/2/21

Not a club or party person at all! I was never into it when I was younger and now it just doesn't sound appealing.

Jball · 9/3/21

There was definitely a time when I used to be a party person and loved going to clubs and have fun. With time, I gave up going to bars and really not into it anymore.

Nesut · 9/3/21

Bruh Man said:
too much drama in the nightlife, if I aint with my homies I’m on the 5th floor.

You‘re really doing this whole bruh man thing huh? usher laugh

Sovereign · 9/3/21

I go to a club er’now and then but I always bring a breezie and cut the rug.

Lamont · 9/3/21

I fashion myself a bit of a recluse but I definitely enjoy a night on the town. As I‘ve matured I’ve definitely shifted from clubs to places that allow me to more easily converse. I prefer lounges and restaurants now as I can have a great conversation in a good atmosphere. Good moments at these times begin and end with great conversation.

I’m getting old.

Deleted member 1946 · 4/19/23

I want to go out, but it is hard. Folks love getting attitudes with folks for no reason and folks love shooting when they get mad.

Deleted member 1946 · 4/19/23

Lamont said:
I fashion myself a bit of a recluse but I definitely enjoy a night on the town. As I‘ve matured I’ve definitely shifted from clubs to places that allow me to more easily converse. I prefer lounges and restaurants now as I can have a great conversation in a good atmosphere. Good moments at these times begin and end with great conversation.

I’m getting old.

I notice that when people mature, they tend to stay away from clubs.

Deleted member 1946 · 4/19/23

Sovereign said:
I go to a club er’now and then but I always bring a breezie and cut the rug.

It is almost always some mess going on at a club such as fighting and shooting. Folks are always trying to dance on somebody who don't want them.

Deleted member 1946 · 4/19/23

Jball said:
There was definitely a time when I used to be a party person and loved going to clubs and have fun. With time, I gave up going to bars and really not into it anymore.

I would prefer being around a select group of people. Much less chance of mess occurring. Plus I have the selection of drinks (non-alcoholic) and music I want.

Deleted member 1946 · 4/19/23

Jay said:
I love going to wineries and other chill spots that facilitate good conversation. Going partying and stuff is old to me and super expensive.

I love this although I am not a wine drinker. I have respect for folks who go to wineries. I love good convo as well. Not this little baby talk that so many folks are on. But higher level topics.

Sapphire · 4/20/23

I used to like going out but since 2020, I am good. People are too crazy. I would rather chill at home. I will go out during the day on the weekends but I like to just stay in at night these days. I am not into drinking like I once was. Not a fan of the club scenes anymore. If I am going out, it is going to be to relaxing places, not places where ish pops off and crazies hangout at.

Deleted member 1946 · 4/20/23

Sapphire said:
I used to like going out but since 2020, I am good. People are too crazy. I would rather chill at home. I will go out during the day on the weekends but I like to just stay in at night these days. I am not into drinking like I once was. Not a fan of the club scenes anymore. If I am going out, it is going to be to relaxing places, not places where ish pops off and crazies hangout at.

It is hard trying to enjoy yourself when folks are so quick to start shooting when they get mad instead of leaving.

StayingHumble · 4/21/23

I used to club all the time but it's not the same feeling. In the mid 2000s it was fun probably because I was younger but now that I'm close to pushing 40 I don't want to be that old guy in the club that I complained about when I was younger.

Sapphire · 4/21/23

educatedman23 said:
It is hard trying to enjoy yourself when folks are so quick to start shooting when they get mad instead of leaving.

It isn't just that, people are just quick to get angry and start crap. Like it happens all over the place now and too frequently. I saw one too many arguments turn into violence and I am good on that. I also don't want to be part of any sort of gathering the police will be around.

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