The Streets

I have always viewed the whole Passport Bros thing as just a bad talking point that people online are using to increase their clicks and views. It seems since Kevin Samuels blew up and got rich talking about "Modern women etc." that everyone has been trying to find their place in that bowl of money.

I just see it as a false narrative and problem.

There are some 167.5 million women in the United States. Now we are going to have to narrow that based on several factors. First you'll narrow based on attractiveness and being fit and in shape. Statistics put around 42% of the total population as being obese. Now that is a substantial amount but that includes everyone including males. Next you will have to narrow on attractiveness. That is a subjective matter so it just depends on an individuals tastes and standards as to how much that narrows the numbers.

So even with that large narrowing you are still in the very high millions of women available. Once you start narrowing by race, height, etc the number becomes smaller and smaller. If you are trying to land a straight up 10 or even a 9 your number is even smaller and maybe even small to a point of unrealism unless you either have a lot of money or are very aesthetically attractive. That's what a lot of these passport bros don't understand.

Now we get to realism and actuality. Just like men have preferences and ideals on what they want and expect so do women. And that is fair. So with that being the case there are just some women that are going to be out of your league. That could be because of looks. It could be because you finance aren't up to par. It could be you aren't fit enough. Whatever the case the woman has decided you aren't what she wants.

Now there are going to be women that are more open and some of those things may not matter. As a man you have to find one that is within your realm to be able to get.

We're not all going to end up with women that are supermodels. We're not all going to land a 10. That is totally unrealistic. We have to get used to finding value in women other than their looks. Otherwise you are looking for a 10 that may never come to fruition.

Another issue is online dating. Women, especially the very attractive ones are getting their inbox flooded by men all day everyday. So they have their pick of the litter. Unless you are very aesthetically attractive online dating isn't going to work. A lot of guys don't think like that.

A lot of these guys just don't have the confidence, game and ability to get women here state side so they are literally flying thousands of miles for sexual access just like Jason Black pointed out.

I refuse to believe that it is that someone absolutely can't find a woman that is friendly, submissive and at least fairly attractive here. I believe that either the guy doesn't have the confidence to approach women in person and is dependent solely on online dating and that hasn't worked so they gave up. They are so afraid of being turned down in person that they don't approach women in person.

Actuality is all men have what I have dubbed as a percentage. By that I mean dependent upon you looks aesthetically, finances, and personality you have a certain percent of women that will talk to you and give you a shot. Me and a friend literally tested this theory. For a period of a month we approached women and made friendly conversation to see if we could get their phone number or et them to agree to a coffee or lunch date.

My outcome was around 40%. For every 10 women or so that I spoke with 3/4 would show interest. That meant I was going to get shot down between 6-7 times for every 10. But the numbers were consistent, I never asked 10 and got less than 3 or 4 over the entire course of the month.

My friends numbers were a bit higher. His were around 60%. For every 10 he would get 5/6 interested. Same with him though the numbers stayed consistent. Now I don't think his numbers were higher because he was far more attractive or anything. I think it had a bit to do with him being Hispanics and us being in a predominately Hispanics city.

I think if we were in Atlanta the numbers would have been reversed. Can't say for sure but just my theory.

So based on that if you have the confidence, know how to talk to and respectfully approach women and can get over a few rejections then you can find a woman to talk to you.

Again though you can't just approach all 10s or you rejection rate is going to decrease. When I did that my numbers dropped to around 10%. My friends numbers dropped to about 10% as well.

These super attractive women know their looks are currency so they are going to be far more selective. However as long as me and my friend stayed with talking to women between 6-8.5 that were attractive but not supermodel attractive our numbers stayed high.

I like Jason Black think these passport bros are just a bunch of simps that want a 10 but can't land one and are going overseas and paying for sex. They aren't getting married in droves or we'd hear more about that. They are just paying for p*ssy. They just feel the women there are so much more attractive because they are foreign when the reality is they are average looking chicks that are just exotic. All exotic means if different just like Jason Black said.

So while I disagree with Jason's delivery of the message, I agree with the message itself.

So now I am going to address the other side of it.....

Modern women. My take from a lot of these dudes is that they mean black women but can't say that because it is too politically incorrect, so they just say modern women instead. Nevertheless as I said there are lots of women available here in the U.S. You just have to find where you fit into those available.

Now a lot of the women you see online talking all crazy have the same issue. They want a man that is 6 foot tall, makes 6 figures, has a 6 pack and drives a Mercedes or BMW. These are things that aren't realistic. Even they know that deep down. There are WWE wrestlers that will meet every one of those except maybe one. There are those wrestlers that aren't 6 foot. Those that don't have a 6 pack. The same is true for NBA and NFL players. Do you think those women would turn these men down because they don't have a 6 pack or aren't tall enough? Of course not.

Because they are after the bag and they will overlook that one thing for a guy who is wealthy enough. But for the average guy they aren't going to overlook it. Even if you are making say $110k they aren't going to overlook severe obesity but if you up that to being a millionaire they'll overlook it.

These aren't "modern women" they are gold diggers and passport bros are trying to make it as if all women are like this. That's simply not true. Most women just want a man who has himself together, is friendly, in good shape and pleasant to be around. They may even want you to be funny, smart or something like that. However most women aren't going around saying a guy has to make 6 figures, drive a certain car, be a certain height and stuff like that.

They do have demands but those demands are generally reasonable. However you can't be a guy who doesn't have himself together and expect women to just accept mediocrity. Especially the more attractive women.


That's my take. I think these passport bros are just traveling simps!