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Black People: Please Stop-Not what you think

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    I used to like #idriselba too but this was such a clumsy stupid ideological revealing statement. I will never ever NOT be a Black anything. What I want is for people to respect me and not typecast me for being Black. This negro sounded like he wanted to discard his Blackness to avoid the stigma attached to it.

    Granted, I didn’t fully read his statement and its because things are going well for me and I don’t need any coon sentiments in my perimeter.

    The “I am not a Black…” is enough for me.
     
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    Another one:

    Actor Daniel Kaluuya is bored of talking about race

    Daniel Kaluuya has said he is bored of talking about race and racial issues.


    Lakeith Stanfield also claimed there's no such thing as Black DOACS Culture

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    These type of folk are the bottom of the barrel. They’ll sell a whole village out to be supporting cast in a B Movie.

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    Does this gif still apply to Black people who "transcended" Blackness?

    Rooting Issa Rae GIF
     

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    I used to like #idriselba too but this was such a clumsy stupid ideological revealing statement. I will never ever NOT be a Black anything. What I want is for people to respect me and not typecast me for being Black. This negro sounded like he wanted to discard his Blackness to avoid the stigma attached to it.

    Granted, I didn’t fully read his statement and its because things are going well for me and I don’t need any coon sentiments in my perimeter.

    The “I am not a Black…” is enough for me.
    I'm done too! 🖕🏽 He's claiming British & not Black! 🖕🏽
    #PhuckYouIdiotElba
     

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    When you work in a completely white world or white ran industry, your perspectives can get skewed if you’re not mindful. I completely understand where he’s coming from-within the context of white folks in the industry can’t see a black actor in a role made for white people…so for them, he’s putting them on notice..don’t do that to me.. To you! I should be an actor first when you’re handing out them millions!

    Clearly, he’s not speaking from a pro-Black perspective, because only Black people can play every non-historical role with authenticity.
     

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    When you work in a completely white world or white ran industry, your perspectives can get skewed if you’re not mindful. I completely understand where he’s coming from-within the context of white folks in the industry can’t see a black actor in a role made for white people…so for them, he’s putting them on notice..don’t do that to me.. To you! I should be an actor first when you’re handing out them millions!

    Clearly, he’s not speaking from a pro-Black perspective, because only Black people can play every non-historical role with authenticity.
    But every Black person works in a White dominated industry, it’s just how close you are to the White people that differs. He loses me with these lines:

    “racism is very real,” but he believes that “it’s only as powerful as you allow it to be.”

    “I don’t want to be the first Black. I’m the first Idris.”

    “Our skin is no more than that: it’s just skin. Rant over,”


    He’s trying to distance himself from Blackness because he feels it’s holding him back. The first and last quote could be attributed to a White racist and it wouldn’t be inconsistent with their ideology.

     
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    Hollywood and the entertainment, art, movie, music and sports industries love Black people who think like Idris Elba. That's why from the most mainstream down to the most underground artist / unknown entertainer / undiscovered athlete, only the off-code, the whitewashed, the divestors, the safe and non-threatening, the white-identified, the white-worshipping, and the sellouts and traitors are promoted, seen, and heard from.
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    I used to like #idriselba too but this was such a clumsy stupid ideological revealing statement. I will never ever NOT be a Black anything. What I want is for people to respect me and not typecast me for being Black. This negro sounded like he wanted to discard his Blackness to avoid the stigma attached to it.

    Granted, I didn’t fully read his statement and its because things are going well for me and I don’t need any coon sentiments in my perimeter.

    The “I am not a Black…” is enough for me.
    I like your honesty! Sometimes it just isn’t worth ruining your day.
     
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    Why do you think he's wrong by not accepting a term that was forced on him by white people?
    There was never any group of people in the history of mankind who defined themselves as 'black'.
    Okay. Black people in the USA don’t think that way or worry about it too much. I’ve heard Black Carribeans use it too, so I assume it isn’t an issue for them either. I think even Bob Marley sung about us as a Black people, as well as Africans.

    I do notice some Africans are bothered by the term and don’t use it. Some get into hyper logical arguments about black being a color, Asians aren’t yellow therefore…Cool. But I know I’m not gonna stop referring to us that way (as well as Freedman and FBA) and I haven’t heard too many other Black folks complaining about it.
     

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    I don't know if this applies to Idris Alba or not, but for many blacks in sports and entertainment, industries where they strive for money and fame, for some reason many who want that think that once they get to a certain level, racism either doesn't apply to them or affect any more or very little.

    I recall Pharell tried that bullsh*t. When you are worth 80 milion, 100 million dollars you are in a whole different company of people. If you are famous everyone caters to you, even whites. You see white people begging for your autograph, you are 'loved' when you show up anywhere public. You get the false impression your fame and money has made you racism proof.

    Then at some point you get a Negro wake up call and its on a higher level than us on here. Maybe you want to be James Bond as its iconic and you are too 'urban' .Maybe you are an A list, black comedian and they are trying to make you wear a dress.

    Maybe you are a famous rapper on a yacht with people worth hundreds of millions or billions, high level government officials of other countries and the host publicly asks you to do one of your raps. (this really happened, I think Nas, but I'm not 100 percent sure but I definitely recall a famous rapper saying it).

    You might famous people thinking you and them are so comfortable they can say 'My n*gga' to you (Jay Z and Kanye).

    Anyway, you realize the racism and bigotry is just at a higher level than a white boy yelling the N bomb to you as you riding a bike in his neighborhood.

    YOU CAN NEVER ESCAPE WHITE SUPREMACY.
     

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    Okay. Black people in the USA don’t think that way or worry about it too much. I’ve heard Black Carribeans use it too, so I assume it isn’t an issue for them either. I think even Bob Marley sung about us as a Black people, as well as Africans.

    I do notice some Africans are bothered by the term and don’t use it. Some get into hyper logical arguments about black being a color, Asians aren’t yellow therefore…Cool. But I know I’m not gonna stop referring to us that way (as well as Freedman and FBA) and I haven’t heard too many other Black folks complaining about it.
    🎶Say It Loud, I'M BLACK & I'm Proud🎶! 1968
    Black Power! ✊🏽1954
    Black Excellence! 1960
     

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    But every Black person works in a White dominated industry, it’s just how close you are to the White people that differs. He loses me with these lines:

    “racism is very real,” but he believes that “it’s only as powerful as you allow it to be.”
    He is demonstrating what he preaches.

    To even say he is not calling himself black because that would pigeonhole him is literally giving racism the power to pigeonhole him. The fact that he is modifying himself/taking a stance against the label "black" to suit racism because it would pigeonhole him demonstrates the power he's giving to racism. If racism had no power over him, there would not have been a need to say this.

    It's a good lesson, demonstrated.
     
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    I notice white-worshipping Black people who are often insecure with their Blackness and the manmade societal issues and stigma that come with it don't like to be seen as or only referred to as a Black man or Black woman.

    Though I also notice that a lot whites hate it or seem uncomfortable to refer to themselves as or have someone else call them "white." Some even take it as an insult when a Black person calls them, a white person, white (especially during an argument) which is bizarre to me. What is your theory on this Czharcus ?
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    As you know, words don't mean the same thing to everybody. Not all white people are comfortable with whiteness as they know what went into making whiteness such a desirable thing to the world at large.

    Some of us might enjoy demonizing white people, dare I say, dehumanizing them so far as to say they are pure evil (I do not judge the judges btw, their feelings are valid).

    The truth is tho, they are humans. Since we effectively share emotion, humans cannot stand human suffering because it makes them suffer. As a result of the obvious suffering due to creating and maintaining the prestige of whiteness, the natural defense mechanism of fight, flight, freeze kicks on.

    Whites that get mad if you call them white are in "flight" mode, I believe. Their minds are doing everything possible to hide, from their own consciousness, the suffering the skin they are wearing is/has caused to so many people, especially Black people. Then, the likelihood that they're not doing anything about it or even secretly want it to continue (for the purposes of self-preservation) makes it worse.

    When black people call certain white people "white" they are forcing them to stare directly at the very thing their minds have been expending so much energy to shield them from.

    You can see the phenomenon reflected in society itself, the "brown" buffer, benign neglect, constant distractions. They simply cannot look directly at the problem. It's too painful.

    White guilt is real as fuck and it doesn't always look like you would expect, fueling both the racist and the antiracist.

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    He is demonstrating what he preaches.

    To even say he is not calling himself black because that would pigeonhole him is literally giving racism the power to pigeonhole him. The fact that he is modifying himself/taking a stance against the label "black" to suit racism because it would pigeonhole him demonstrates the power he's giving to racism.

    It's a good lesson, demonstrated.
    Great way of explaining it. He is showing the power of racism by him having to adjust his identity.
     

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    When white people hear all that. I'm not black or don't want to be seen as black they keep a poker face but in their minds are saying 'Got 'em'.

    'We keep disenfranchising him because he's black while he keeps not wanting to be seen as just black which helps our strategy'
     

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    Okay. Black people in the USA don’t think that way or worry about it too much. I’ve heard Black Carribeans use it too, so I assume it isn’t an issue for them either. I think even Bob Marley sung about us as a Black people, as well as Africans.

    I do notice some Africans are bothered by the term and don’t use it. Some get into hyper logical arguments about black being a color, Asians aren’t yellow therefore…Cool. But I know I’m not gonna stop referring to us that way (as well as Freedman and FBA) and I haven’t heard too many other Black folks complaining about it.
    What does black even mean?
     

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    He is demonstrating what he preaches.

    To even say he is not calling himself black because that would pigeonhole him is literally giving racism the power to pigeonhole him. The fact that he is modifying himself/taking a stance against the label "black" to suit racism because it would pigeonhole him demonstrates the power he's giving to racism. If racism had no power over him, there would not have been a need to say this.

    It's a good lesson, demonstrated.
    Fair point, well made.