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    Are you giving your man what he needs and wants or are you giving him what YOU think he needs and wants?

    For the last 14 months, I've been dealing with "he" and that is what he told me what he wants. I am truly trying to look passed that he described a booty call, because according to him that is the kind of woman he is looking for. Outside of me flaking or creating a great escape, I think we enjoy...
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    Are you giving your man what he needs and wants or are you giving him what YOU think he needs and wants?

    Ummm. He wants steady intimacy, classy company and availability when he calls. I feel like he has described a 2020 concubine!! Why should I have to sign up to be a 2020 concubine in hopes that I will be upgraded to an entrapped concubine! Men just move and think differently and unfortunately my...
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    Would you date someone with a couple kids?

    Younger children ARE annoying and require lots of attention. Essentially, I don't believe in being a step-parent. I can be a genuine, caring and dependable adult who happens to have a deep relationship with your parent at this time. I love kids though, just not the way I see parents love their...
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    Are You A Capitalist?

    There are things that are ideally awesome, but realistically have draws backs. I really like socialism, even though I have never had to live under that system, so anything I have to say is conjecture until I suffer under a differing regime. Currently, capitalism draws soooooo much greed that it...
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    MARVEL SAYS THE WORD ‘MEN’ IN X-MEN IS OUTDATED AND NON-INCLUSIVE

    Current gay culture has me confused!!! I've been mad since they gave dracula and warewolves families that they sacrificed themselves for out of 💕💕. Legitimate fictional monsters!!
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    What's the lady's feelings on the "Slave Play"?

    Django upped my expectation and I'm not turning back. Especially for no perversion. It looks like they needed to add erogenous mutilation just to keep it a buck!!
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    Do you want a relationship or just a friends with benefits type of situation?

    I like how you put that. The friendship is soooo much more important than the intimacy because truth is people get bored with the intimacy(especially men) and the whole relationship be built on that alone. Even if both parties know that it isn't even their strong suit within their union. There...
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    Did you know California used to be an island?

    bobbybrowncool *Listening to the Lying King*
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    Do you want a relationship or just a friends with benefits type of situation?

    I'm not into FWB, but it's weird because, I want any and all mens I lay down with to be my "friend". Love me enough as your friend to let me go, when you don't have enough for me or love me enough as your friend to let me know that I don't have enough for you. Either way, love me and respect me...
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    If a Man Pays All the Bills, What Do You Feel a Woman’s Role is in the Relationship?

    I would suggest any couple to get it that way. Gotta have an angry stash, instead of getting put out his house, watch his car get towed back to him and all things associated with him showing mercy upon your dependent arse.... Let me add that I was 7, when my parents got divorced. Although my...
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    Did you know California used to be an island?

    Fraudulent people been selling ideas to the hopeless trying to gain a modicum of trust, to poison minds and snatch valuables. Agreed. I am on the fence about all them maps. On one hand, word of mouth is just as credible, especially if that was the word around town, but on the other hand.. Ex...
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    Did you know California used to be an island?

    Often there has to be research done on the cartographer because some of them folks were just as fraudulent as Christopher Columbus. They would draw elaborate pictures based on word-of-mouth having never left their own continent/country. Not to be the Debbie Downer, but I was trying to prove...
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    Dating older women (cougars)

    Okay, well into less than %2 pregnancy scare age
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    If a Man Pays All the Bills, What Do You Feel a Woman’s Role is in the Relationship?

    Bless her heart and bless your whole household! I really really despise these men out here listening to Kevin Samuels and the likes. At some point, if you are not aware of the foundation of our communities and homes being rocked and needing to be built over again thru partners equally...
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    Are You ADOS, Are You Pan-Afrikan, or Do You Consider Yourself To Be Both?

    I was born FBA, I've contemplated leaving and going where??? I know for a fact that my people wish we had a island of our own- let alone a whole continent. They don't want us to go, but they don't want us here!! I believe no matter where we go, we will be followed and the smut they keeping...
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    If a Man Pays All the Bills, What Do You Feel a Woman’s Role is in the Relationship?

    This is exactly where I am going with this. Not many of us know about this ideal atomic family unit and it isn't very fathomable when you consider that women have goals of their own, that don't include the obvious- like motherhood, cooking and cleaning. I refuse to believe that my purpose on...
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    Did we sleep on Cynthia McKinney (D-GA)

    The vote is still out with me and Ms. McKinney, from afar she looks and seems like a promising candidate, but somehow she has been left in the fray. I have never been a constituent of hers and curious to what happened and how it happened and who was she as a representative?
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    Weddings, ugh, like them or hate them?

    I wouldn't say scared.. startled!! Andddddd I was inconspicuous until the pictures came out!!!! I was 24 and really uninterested in allllllll the formalities.