@HailCzr85 That was a good read and breakdown of virtue signaling. A lot of us need this information.
I really can not understand what black people do not get. It's like we're deaf, dumb, and blind. It's really getting to me at this point.
I noticed if Jr. High that white people and other non blacks favored black people who were coons. Period. Even if the cooning was light, unintentional or misunderstood, they were still coons.
I have my own personal feelings about what leads to this coon behavior, but I'm sure it's more than I could ever guess. 2 major factors are low esteem, and the presence of weak men or no men in your life. And that goes for men and women. Sorry ladies, I'm an intelligent high born confident proud feminine outspoken black woman, and I don't want to be a man, but women just can't bring what men bring to the table. And even if you see a woman like myself, who seems like she can bring that fire with her, it's usually because she, like myself, was taught by a strong man. Now I could be wrong! Maybe I am. But the women in my life did next to nothing for me when it came to instilling a sense of self preservation, loyalty, and social intelligence.
I run my home in a very different manner than the women in my family ran theirs. And every morning I wake up, I think about my father and how when I was 8 years old, my teacher asked me to present to the class what my father did for a living. I stood up in front of all of those kids and told them, "My dad puts the sun in the sky", and no one could tell me any different. My teacher asked, "why do you say that?" I replied, "Every morning my dad gets up and it's dark outside. Then he gets in his car and drives to work. Then the sun comes up". My teacher told me that was amazing and my father works very hard. That same day I asked my father what he did at work. He told me that he was a truck driver. I was always so proud of him. No one could have told me that he didn't put the sun in the sky. He's gone now, but I like to wake up with the sun and think about him before I start my day. It gives me strength.
I say all of this to say, that strong men are necessary and give life to the community through hard work, ethics and pride. Because of my father, I never felt that I needed white people to walk with me, because I never saw that he needed them. I always felt like black people had everything we needed inside of us. Of course if you find white people and inch, they will take a mile, that's what they do. They think being black is like being a tree, a gay person, or a misunderstood book. They do not and will not ever see black people in our greatness and fullness. That is for us to see.
We are asking white people to care about us, so that we can start to care for ourselves and that's embarrassing and degrading. We are asking white people to lead up to no end. What did we think was going to happen?
I didn't participate in the BLM movement because I don't see it as anything different than the LGBT movement. It's propaganda meant to make white people feel like they are doing something, while we suffer. We've got to stop this need for approval for non blacks. It permeates our culture and families to the highest degrees and it's detrimental to our success as a people.
We need hard, intelligent, purpose driven leadership from men and women. Too many women are not giving their daughters the attention and guidance they need. And too many men do not understand how important they are to the family structure, even though they themselves ache from not having a father.
This lostness is getting worse with social media because black people decided that we were going to get online and act like fools instead of using social media to communicate and build with one another. 😒
I've come to the conclusion that the majority of us are anti black, self hating, white worshipping people that love to entertain, cry, beg, be hopeless, dance, sex sex sex, and pretend that we aren't in the very situation we're in. I'm really ready to move on from these type of black people. Cutting white people off is not a problem for me. Black people at this point are presenting as a problem, in my humble opinion.