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I agree, but we have another crisis in our community with folks pro-creating without the means to care for their children. There are plenty of people with criminal records who are unable to work in the legal economy to care for kids. They are having babies to survive, period. Men latch on to these women with all these kids because it's food and shelter. They can't work and there is no expectations for them to work. A lot of people can't afford to have children but have them anyway. Also problematic is the fact we've gotten away from abstaining until marriage, treating our cookies as a prize instead of snacks. If people would have children with a sane husband that a provider and a sane wife that capable of being a mother, nurturer, teacher, etc.These non-traditional roles ain't working for our community.We need to have codes and rules for our community. Don't have children until you have the means and time to care for them. Abstain. It should not be so fashionable or cool to be a single parent.
I agree, but we have another crisis in our community with folks pro-creating without the means to care for their children. There are plenty of people with criminal records who are unable to work in the legal economy to care for kids. They are having babies to survive, period. Men latch on to these women with all these kids because it's food and shelter. They can't work and there is no expectations for them to work. A lot of people can't afford to have children but have them anyway. Also problematic is the fact we've gotten away from abstaining until marriage, treating our cookies as a prize instead of snacks. If people would have children with a sane husband that a provider and a sane wife that capable of being a mother, nurturer, teacher, etc.
These non-traditional roles ain't working for our community.
We need to have codes and rules for our community. Don't have children until you have the means and time to care for them. Abstain. It should not be so fashionable or cool to be a single parent.
