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Could you date a thirst trapper?

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Would you be cool with someone who likes to post pictures of themselves in various states of undress or very little clothing?
Both men and women do this, so this is a question for all.
I know some people feel a sense of pride when their significant other shows off their body.
Where do you stand on this?
 
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    FeverPitch said:
    Would you be cool with someone who likes to post pictures of themselves in various states of undress or very little clothing?
    Both men and women do this, so this is a question for all.
    I know some people feel a sense of pride when their significant other shows off their body.
    Where do you stand on this?
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    If she doesn't cheat and brings home the bacon then I could see myself going for it.
     
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    Troy said:
    If she doesn't cheat and brings home the bacon then I could see myself going for it.
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    Troy you are something else. I cannot be with a woman who is seeking attention on the internet. There is clearly something missing there that I'm not able to provide. I want no parts of that.
     
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    Nope. If you're not smart enough to keep a thirst trapper in a situationship you will find yourself in some type of ruin. Thirst trapping is literally right across the street from OnlyFans. Let yall get in a tight spot that thigh slit in her dress will keep getting higher and higher until it's above her neck.

    Choose wisely folks.
     
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    The Honorable said:


    Troy you are something else. I cannot be with a woman who is seeking attention on the internet. There is clearly something missing there that I'm not able to provide. I want no parts of that.
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    I'm a lady but if my brother dated a thirst trapping hussy I'd be disappointed. Your lady should only be showing all the goodies to you.
     
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    FeverPitch said:
    Would you be cool with someone who likes to post pictures of themselves in various states of undress or very little clothing?
    Both men and women do this, so this is a question for all.
    I know some people feel a sense of pride when their significant other shows off their body.
    Where do you stand on this?
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    No, I personally wouldn't because there are signs there that you should run including:
    1. Esteem issues (too high= narcissist, too low = low self-esteem)
    2. They are advertising, and comfortable doing it.
    3. Interweb attention has them gassed up and they use it like a drug. Being off the market means they'll be seeking a substitute to fill up their gas tanks. You may not want to be taxed with being somebody's gas station once you've decided to take up time with them.
    4. They need attention, a lot of it.
    5. I don't want everyone to know what I'm getting/seeing behind closed doors. Thirst traps advertise their bodies to the world leaving nothing to imagine. For the shallow folks, that's cool. For the deep, it's a disappointment.

    To each his/her own, but to me, the thirst trap is like the person who shops and wears name brands all the time, has an expensive car, lives in a mobile home that's worth less than the car, and keeps their gas tank on E. Their ain't nothin new under the sun. Women and men have been using their bodies to achieve whatever goals they have forever. Most times there is nothing there beyond the good looks and the good times but trouble. I know plenty of brothas who wished they would've left their thirst traps where they were, but they also enjoy the looks and attention THEY get from having the thirst trap on their arm and in pics. Usually, the thirst trap isn't the only one with some internal issues, it's also the person doing the thrusting. Just my two cents.

    At the end of the day, we've become known for being a culture of deviants just like our oppressors. We're becoming more and more like them and it's scary. We aren't any better off as a collective taking up the enemy's culture when it comes to sex. Some shit we need to give back to them in order to fix our community. Sex and lust are two of the biggest time wasters in our lives and we've been told otherwise.
     
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    I couldn't date a thirst trapper. I don't want to be trapped.
     
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    educatedman23 said:
    I couldn't date a thirst trapper. I don't want to be trapped.
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    FeverPitch said:
    Would you be cool with someone who likes to post pictures of themselves in various states of undress or very little clothing?
    Both men and women do this, so this is a question for all.
    I know some people feel a sense of pride when their significant other shows off their body.
    Where do you stand on this?
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    I couldn't do it. I feel like if a man I am with is out there flexing and showing it off, there are going to be women gunning for him left and right and I would have to worry about that nonsense. It would end up ruining the trust.
     
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    MarleyK20 said:
    1. Esteem issues (too high= narcissist, too low = low self-esteem)
    2. They are advertising, and comfortable doing it.
    3. Interweb attention has them gassed up and they use it like a drug. Being off the market means they'll be seeking a substitute to fill up their gas tanks. You may not want to be taxed with being somebody's gas station once you've decided to take up time with them.
    4. They need attention, a lot of it.
    5. I don't want everyone to know what I'm getting/seeing behind closed doors. Thirst traps advertise their bodies to the world leaving nothing to imagine. For the shallow folks, that's cool. For the deep, it's a disappointment.
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    Last thing I need is a man that thinks his looks are currency.
     
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    FeverPitch said:
    Would you be cool with someone who likes to post pictures of themselves in various states of undress or very little clothing?
    Both men and women do this, so this is a question for all.
    I know some people feel a sense of pride when their significant other shows off their body.
    Where do you stand on this?
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    If she has no respect for herself, she'll never have respect for you. It's that's simple. It's like asking "would you ever marry a known thief" at some point that nigga or female is going to steal from you, it's what they do.
    I could never mess with a female who's posting pictures of everything on IG, it isn't classy at all.
     
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    Blackgravity said:
    If she has no respect for herself, she'll never have respect for you. It's that's simple. It's like asking "would you ever marry a known thief" at some point that nigga or female is going to steal from you, it's what they do.
    I could never mess with a female who's posting pictures of everything on IG, it isn't classy at all.
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    Male or female, that person belongs to the streets!
     
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    Blackgravity said:
    If she has no respect for herself, she'll never have respect for you. It's that's simple. It's like asking "would you ever marry a known thief" at some point that nigga or female is going to steal from you, it's what they do.
    I could never mess with a female who's posting pictures of everything on IG, it isn't classy at all.
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    Great point whenever it is in their interest to fall back into their nature they will. Seen it time and time again growing up and trusting family members who I knew was on some other shit.
     
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    If you're not reserved, I don't really think there's ever going to be anything that's going to move my interest towards you as a lady in the first place. A lady who's a thirst trapper will most likely sell out herself one day because what she's after in the beginning is attention and money. When she gets the best offer, she's getting down to business that's been paid for.
     
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    I don't support that at all, when my husband goes outside to wash his car and I discover his knicker is too short,I complain and compel him to change it because of our neighbors. I have seen people showcase themselves online but I'm not comfortable with it.
     
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    As if there are no other kind of good ladies out there for me to date but only a thirst trapper? Please, I'd pass on this one because they are keg of gunpowder that's going to explode anytime. 99% of their attention wouldn't be in their relationship but whatever rubbish they are doing online.
     
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    Forgive my ignorance in this one because I never knew it's thirst trapper they are called. As for me, the only thing they are good for is sex and fun, they are not worth being committed to because they will end up making your life a living hell. A lady who doesn't have sense of decency with what she posts online isn't worth the stress.
     
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