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I think respect is more important. You don't want to be with a woman who disrespects you just as much as you don't want to be with a man who disrespects you. It is a two-way road.If we are talking about unfairness and the involvement of the state, Obama addressed this. The lack of fatherhood in the home is an issue in black communities and it won't be resolved until black men are lifted up, encouraged, empowered and loved. The government needs to stop empowering women to use welfare to replace a man as a father and provider. The dialog of being a thug needs to stop. The women not only need to respect themselves but respect their men. There is a culture around this that has caused many roadblocks and the way the system comes down harder on black men just doesn't help.I don't know how to fix this but I do not it starts in the home. We know the government isn't going to do anything to change this. Hell, they probably prefer it this way.
I think respect is more important. You don't want to be with a woman who disrespects you just as much as you don't want to be with a man who disrespects you. It is a two-way road.
If we are talking about unfairness and the involvement of the state, Obama addressed this. The lack of fatherhood in the home is an issue in black communities and it won't be resolved until black men are lifted up, encouraged, empowered and loved. The government needs to stop empowering women to use welfare to replace a man as a father and provider. The dialog of being a thug needs to stop. The women not only need to respect themselves but respect their men. There is a culture around this that has caused many roadblocks and the way the system comes down harder on black men just doesn't help.
I don't know how to fix this but I do not it starts in the home. We know the government isn't going to do anything to change this. Hell, they probably prefer it this way.
