The Cookout

[Real One]

This isn't about me, but my cousin who was cheated on. He was dating this one woman who he could never get enough of. I thought she was cool, and was really nice, but about two years into the relationship, he started to notice her acting weird and distant. Her excuse was work was rough and she needed to just be by herself.

Anyway, to make the story short, he caught her texting his best friend at the time. He didn't think anything of it at first, because he had a b-day coming up, and he thought maybe they were making plans to do a party for him. But... that's not how it turned out. He saw she was texting him often and even had sent him nude photos.

When he brought it to my attention, he didn't know what to do. His best friend was seeing his current girlfriend. And I mean, these two were friends since elementary school. So not only did he lose a girlfriend that day, he lost his best friend. He confronted them, but they denied it for a while until he showed them the phone. I'm just glad things ended right then and there. I thought he was going to kill the dude, but he kinda did nothing. He did scream at them and said they were over, and that his friend was to never talk to him ever again.

Anyway, has this ever happened to you? A friend or family member sleeping with your old lady? How did you deal with it?

 

[lexodyssey]

That's rough. I can't imagine what he must have been going through losing a close friend and girlfriend at the same time. I've never had this happen or been around it, but that has to be tough

 

[Red Velvet]

OMG that is trifling. How is he holding up?

 

[Goldilocks]

No that has never happened thankfully. People can be so heartlessly selfish.