I thought someone was bringing some incest to the board at first.
Seriously, it's why we see a lot of kids gets all manner of maltreatment simply because their parents can't really take good care of them.
I always hear stories of abuse too because the parents don't stay together so the kids end up getting abused by the new partners coming and going. It is just honestly sad. We have ways around pregnancy, use them! Don't have children at a young age. It is just too damn hard.
It's why we get to see a lot of kids end up in the system today and right into foster homes. The lucky one's get picked up by families that's going to take good care of them while the unlucky ones get all manner of sticks.
There need to be more incentives for families to adopt, especially black families. I am fine with white couples taking in black children but most of them do not teach them the truth about people or this country and it hurts them in the long run. They end up becoming coons.
In such kind of situations, those kids don't have anyway to get out of such chains if I may use that description because what they learn is at the mercy of the white family that adopted them.
Can't say that I've experienced that. I can say that whoever the family members are, they all know they could count on me for advice, support & most of all, love.
Maybe having some sort of black lead group to help them before adopting black children would help. But who knows. There are just too many children that need homes these days. It is sad to see them get stuck in homes and foster care for years, or their whole life.
I remember when family members NEVER allowed that to happen! It makes me angry to see these other races adopt our children, just for financial gain & abusing them! I'm hell bent on that! THEY DON'T KNOW OUR CULTURE & don't give a damn! 💯
Seriously, it's really that bad and it's getting out of hand as the day goes by. There was a rape case of a 13 years old in my neighborhood yesterday by a 33 years old man. She was in foster care and that's how her life has been ruined.
The foster care system is filled with people who abuse children. It is quite sad. I think this is down to people only doing it to get money from the state. Their heart is not in the right place from the start.
The sad thing is that they know very that these kids need nothing but a home and comfort but they keep adding salt to their injuries.
I have considered adopting or doing foster care myself. Just to take some kids out of the system. If for some reason I can't have any, I will do one or the other for sure. Just having someone care for them is enough to help them heal.
Seriously, this your thoughts is what humanity is all about and should have been because we are so hurt that we need the kindness to be able to recover. I hope you get to do that someday.
