10 sisters flew first class and white people had a hissy fit. I use various means to upgrade to business or first class when I can. Certain credit cards are great for travel points. I also join every single frequent flier club I can. Domestic flights I get upgraded on, and it depends on a few different circumstances, I will be asked a staff member if they can see my ticket. Not the 50 year old white man next to me, but mine only. I don't make a fuss but my look is clear.: Really? and now that you've seen it 'F*ck you, yes, I'm in business class'.
I flew from LA to Miami business class a year ago using my travel points. And it gives you access to the lounge (American Air) and sure enough chick asks to look at my check in and not other white folks. I don't dress in sweat pants when I travel. I dress business casual usually or some thing that is understated but quality.
I rarely get this abroad. I got it once by some chick from a 3rd world country who was at the area for business class. This was a country where they rarely see African Americans and almost always native Africans. One or two of the others kinda gave me the side eye, but one thing in society, especially abroad, you can size up someone's status by how they dress, how they carry themselves and possibly their language or accent. I have an earring in my left air, 2 silver bracelets and a silver ring on each hand. Immediately people know I'm not native African, I've been told blacks from America have a certain swag, confident. I've heard Africans say this that only Nigerians from the Ibo tribe have anything similar in swag. Thing is in America, I'd be just another brotha, maybe even seen as beta (although I think I'm sigma...haha).
One more thing about white people. Their measuring stick of how they are doing in society is partially based on us. If black folks are where they are, they aren't doing well enough. When I'm in business class or first class I often get some white man, not many white women but usually a 40 plus year old white man tryna make small talk and ask what I do. It's usually 1 or 2 small talk questions prior (I hear its raining in Miami hope we land on time or Business or pleasure bringing you to Miami?). They do this to get an explanation of how the f*ck this n*gger is in my upper middle class white space. If its not rapper/entertainer/athlete, even drug dealer (and that's the exception) he's tight. I don't tell them shyt or tell them something to make his face get tighter: "I'm an investor" "I'm semi retired", "Business owner", these answers when other white people say it to each other is coded speech for 'none of your motha effen business'. But with Black people they will not let it slide. "So, what type of business are you in?' "Semi retired from what?' and I also trade in forex (not tryna flex, really) but sometimes I have a position open and need wifi and its on while I'm in line and seated and when white men see that? They lose their f*cking minds. How is this black bastard knowing about forex, trading? I always answer if they see it and ask a question "I dabble" which is a trigger. It can be true or it can be nah, this mofo is making bank.
Since blacks have been in America and poor white indentured servants were told they will always be above blacks 400 years ago, white folks have always measured how they are doing against how we are doing. A lot of articles about people, like Robert Smith is really white folks saying 'Y'all see this? A non athlete or entertainer (Jay Z, Oprah) has billions?! We gotta get on code about them in this shyt.
I've seen first hand white people, take less money so that you don't make money. Happened to Tariq with the original site for the museum. They literally took less money in a loan that more money in cash. I know a guy who was investing in a property and had it done via his lawyer and realtor and at closing he had to sign. When this white man saw it was a black man, he just said "I can't do it' and walked out. No given explanation but the point was very clear to the others there.
One of the reasons reparations for FBA will be fought tooth and nail by whites is that it will move too many of us not only to their level but some above. The reason why many immigrants, Latino, Persians, some foreign Blacks, etc, will fight it is because they were unofficially given code that they are the buffers in class above blacks and they fear if blacks get too much money than they are they will be the new 'n*ggers'.
It's some deep shyt.
I flew from LA to Miami business class a year ago using my travel points. And it gives you access to the lounge (American Air) and sure enough chick asks to look at my check in and not other white folks. I don't dress in sweat pants when I travel. I dress business casual usually or some thing that is understated but quality.
I rarely get this abroad. I got it once by some chick from a 3rd world country who was at the area for business class. This was a country where they rarely see African Americans and almost always native Africans. One or two of the others kinda gave me the side eye, but one thing in society, especially abroad, you can size up someone's status by how they dress, how they carry themselves and possibly their language or accent. I have an earring in my left air, 2 silver bracelets and a silver ring on each hand. Immediately people know I'm not native African, I've been told blacks from America have a certain swag, confident. I've heard Africans say this that only Nigerians from the Ibo tribe have anything similar in swag. Thing is in America, I'd be just another brotha, maybe even seen as beta (although I think I'm sigma...haha).
One more thing about white people. Their measuring stick of how they are doing in society is partially based on us. If black folks are where they are, they aren't doing well enough. When I'm in business class or first class I often get some white man, not many white women but usually a 40 plus year old white man tryna make small talk and ask what I do. It's usually 1 or 2 small talk questions prior (I hear its raining in Miami hope we land on time or Business or pleasure bringing you to Miami?). They do this to get an explanation of how the f*ck this n*gger is in my upper middle class white space. If its not rapper/entertainer/athlete, even drug dealer (and that's the exception) he's tight. I don't tell them shyt or tell them something to make his face get tighter: "I'm an investor" "I'm semi retired", "Business owner", these answers when other white people say it to each other is coded speech for 'none of your motha effen business'. But with Black people they will not let it slide. "So, what type of business are you in?' "Semi retired from what?' and I also trade in forex (not tryna flex, really) but sometimes I have a position open and need wifi and its on while I'm in line and seated and when white men see that? They lose their f*cking minds. How is this black bastard knowing about forex, trading? I always answer if they see it and ask a question "I dabble" which is a trigger. It can be true or it can be nah, this mofo is making bank.
Since blacks have been in America and poor white indentured servants were told they will always be above blacks 400 years ago, white folks have always measured how they are doing against how we are doing. A lot of articles about people, like Robert Smith is really white folks saying 'Y'all see this? A non athlete or entertainer (Jay Z, Oprah) has billions?! We gotta get on code about them in this shyt.
I've seen first hand white people, take less money so that you don't make money. Happened to Tariq with the original site for the museum. They literally took less money in a loan that more money in cash. I know a guy who was investing in a property and had it done via his lawyer and realtor and at closing he had to sign. When this white man saw it was a black man, he just said "I can't do it' and walked out. No given explanation but the point was very clear to the others there.
One of the reasons reparations for FBA will be fought tooth and nail by whites is that it will move too many of us not only to their level but some above. The reason why many immigrants, Latino, Persians, some foreign Blacks, etc, will fight it is because they were unofficially given code that they are the buffers in class above blacks and they fear if blacks get too much money than they are they will be the new 'n*ggers'.
It's some deep shyt.
Flying First Class: Luxurious Treat or Insidious Bastion of Racism?
The sideways looks I get when boarding a plane make me question whether I belong up there.
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