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I've been in this situation multiple times but I don't think it's a complete analogue. I've never told multiple women I'm in a committed relationship with them (not that I remember at least...sometimes you say anything to get the box) but I've definitely had a couple women on the roster at the same time who all thought they were my girlfriend. They would intrepret me being a gentleman, consistent, reliable, and etc as me being in a relationship with them and few came at me when they found out I was in the streets and I straight up asked "When did I ever agree to be exclusive with you?" They'll start juelzing but in the end the facts always stand...Im a gentleman but not your BF.I always use the phrase, when you date a player and find out he has 3 other girlfriends you feel like he played you...when you date me and find out I'm talking to 3 other women you realize you played yourself.On another note, juggling multiple women is tough...I would keep notes on each one to make sure I remembered all the things they liked so I wouldn't get tripped up.Another difficult thing about it is that its expensive AF. If you taking each lady out once a week or even twice a month that shit adds up quickly. It's fun but it gets old quickly...I like consistency, commitment, and intimacy and that's what I wasn't getting when I was playing the field.When you start getting into the lying and shit then it becomes unethical in my opinion but I don't judge but the shit is trife life when you have them thinking they the one and only and she find out you smashing the chick at her paint n sip club.
I've been in this situation multiple times but I don't think it's a complete analogue. I've never told multiple women I'm in a committed relationship with them (not that I remember at least...sometimes you say anything to get the box) but I've definitely had a couple women on the roster at the same time who all thought they were my girlfriend. They would intrepret me being a gentleman, consistent, reliable, and etc as me being in a relationship with them and few came at me when they found out I was in the streets and I straight up asked "When did I ever agree to be exclusive with you?" They'll start juelzing but in the end the facts always stand...Im a gentleman but not your BF.
I always use the phrase, when you date a player and find out he has 3 other girlfriends you feel like he played you...when you date me and find out I'm talking to 3 other women you realize you played yourself.
On another note, juggling multiple women is tough...I would keep notes on each one to make sure I remembered all the things they liked so I wouldn't get tripped up.
Another difficult thing about it is that its expensive AF. If you taking each lady out once a week or even twice a month that shit adds up quickly. It's fun but it gets old quickly...I like consistency, commitment, and intimacy and that's what I wasn't getting when I was playing the field.
When you start getting into the lying and shit then it becomes unethical in my opinion but I don't judge but the shit is trife life when you have them thinking they the one and only and she find out you smashing the chick at her paint n sip club.
