The Cookout

Jay said:

Reading is a great way to help you learn and grow but first you need to have introspective conversation to truly understand where you need the work. Once you have a true, honest grasp of where you’re at and where you need to be, seek out books that talk about that very thing. @Caprice is really good at that and has done it to much success. I’ve dove the same myself when I couldn’t afford counseling and then went to counseling when I could.

The thing to remember is that if you’re a BSer you’ll always fail in this pursuit because you’ll never be honest with yourself. You need to have uncomfortable convo with yourself which is step 1 and step 2 is admitting you need to fix it, step 3 is doing the work.

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Best4_me said:

Have you ever wanted help to better understand yourself, but didn't want to go to counseling? What are the best ways of getting answers?

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