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The 40 Year Old Virgin

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She seems a nice enough woman but as a man, I can tell you if a woman is a virgin at that age, its a red flag for men. It may not be right, but its a red flag. If the reason is religious, it's still a red flag. Because, personally, I'm thinking, she may not really like sex and what if we get married and she just tryna do missionary, no other 'extras', etc. It's what men think. She will be a lame in bed. It's kinda not fair because we also look at women with a high body count as not wifey. 50 years ago, it would be okay, these days? It's so not the norm, a guy, even a good guy is thinking...hmmm, my spidey senses say something ain't right.

Men what do you think? Women?
 

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    If she is healthy though, she could probably have kids naturally. I have seen and heard of plenty of women having them in their early 40s with no issues. I think it depends on how clean your diet is and how well you take care of yourself. She is an athlete so I am not sure why her first jump is IVF. Maybe all that training backfired for her hormones?
     

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    Now, I'm going to ask the question on why she decided not to start a family till it got to this point? Wasn't she getting any advanced from men or she never liked anyone of them?

    But anyways, I think that she can still be able start a family if she's healthy enough and her hormones are good.
     

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    If her reasons for not starting a family is because of academic pursuit, then I think she is wrong. Going through the write up, it looked like a promotional post for women looking to freeze their eggs in order to start family later. I am a man that believes in family and think that is not the way to go.