Open honest question men moving in with women..and displaying "dictatorship" what are the thoughts family?
Say what you "feel" I left it very open for a reason, we have all been in places, yet experience became our best teacher. Now my daddy said "that man will build, & offer you to come, don't ask me for anything when you have a so called laid up with you" welp Pappa never lied ✍️ *noted* I just want to see where we really are as a people, mindset, goals etcBefore I respond to this what do you mean my "dictatorship", I don't want to write a paragraph and I misunderstand what you were tying to say.
I don’t even get what you’re trying to ask.Open honest question men moving in with women..and displaying "dictatorship" what are the thoughts family?
I don’t believe it should be a dictatorship, that’s how you end up with a family that resents you. To be a strong leader you have to be able to listen to those in your care and adjust your behaviors when necessary. I feel like sometimes you have to make an executive decision and say “this is what we are going to do” but if you do that all the time your family will hate you.Open honest question men moving in with women..and displaying "dictatorship" what are the thoughts family?
Ok laments term MEN should you move in with a woman or does she come to you??? My father would eat this post up!!!!!I don’t even get what you’re trying to ask.
I don’t need laymen’s terms I just need properly constructed sentences. But with the clarification I will say that they should get a new place together if possible. If she has the better place then the man could move in with her but not if his name is not on the lease.Ok laments term MEN should you move in with a woman or does she come to you??? My father would eat this post up!!!!!
Ok ok I can see your point clearly, you are highlighting understanding & compromise which are very valid! Even down to that executive decision!! Eye stand & overstandI don’t believe it should be a dictatorship, that’s how you end up with a family that resents you. To be a strong leader you have to be able to listen to those in your care and adjust your behaviors when necessary. I feel like sometimes you have to make an executive decision and say “this is what we are going to do” but if you do that all the time your family will hate you.
Ok ok I can see your point clearly, you are highlighting understanding & compromise which are very valid! Even down to that executive decision!! Eye stand & overstand
Brother not one time was I being defiant, nor disrespectful, however your ideation is pure! EYE concur! Thank you for the response (no problems here♥️)I don’t need laymen’s terms I just need properly constructed sentences. But with the clarification I will say that they should get a new place together if possible. If she has the better place then the man could move in with her but not if his name is not on the lease.
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Brother I felt this! Appreciated & agreed, thanks for your response my daddy plays in my head often. Therefore intend to measure others on what I was raised to believe lol oI don't believe in dictatorships but rather partnerships where couples put their best qualities together for the benefit of the household. For example I watched my Great Grandpa be the primary decision maker when it came to certain things but my Great Grandmother handled all decisions relating to money because she was simply better suited for that. While that may be a bit extreme fot some people it highlights the type of balance and teamwork I feel is necessary when people are committed to each other. We should want to cover the weaknesses of the ones we love while at the same time being strong enough to allow the one we love to cover ours. I feel that is one of the greatest displays of trust and indicators of a healthy relationship. If I'm uncertain of something I have no problem with asking my woman to "be my eyes" while at the same time being confident to make decisions with conviction. I can't say I haven't been a "decision-maker" in my relationships but I also expect my Queen to rule with me and let me know if she feels I'm going astray. Only together can we be God and Goddess.
That's what I'm familiar with but I also pull from what I read of our ancestors both ancient and contemporary on what to do.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Brother I felt this! Appreciated & agreed, thanks for your response my daddy plays in my head often. Therefore intend to measure others on what I was raised to believe lol o
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