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For me, I would prefer a woman who is health conscious but if she isn't and likes to eat food that I would say is unhealthy, she better be and stay in shape. I don't drink much at all unless I have no choice due to protocol, I don't smoke cigs at all and that is a deal breaker. I don't smoke weed but I'm not opposed to it in moderation if she wants to. Obviously not tryna date a weed head smoking every day either.

I have dated one or two sistas who wanted to get tested fairly early and I thought that was very responsible and made me respect them a bit more. I got homies who would see that as a reason not to date believe it or not....lol.

I have worked in countries where you can't get a work visa unless you test negative for all STDs and that helps dating actually. Even though you should still be safe.

Anyway, I try to get in some form of exercise daily. I wouldn't have a problem paying for my girl's gym membership so we can go together.

I have dated a vegan or two and although I do try very hard to eat healthy, one in particular was critical of damn near everything I ate, even if it was technically healthy (low fat or organic this and that). It was too much.