I feel as if this type of soft racism is leagues worse than the overt southern style racism. She basically rewrites history to where there is no racism in the USA and then use that alternate reality to form her opinion. So to her, there is no valid gripe for why Black Americans would be upset with White America other than jealousy. Slavery, Jim Crow, Mass Incarceration, Lynchings, etc don't even come up as that does not exist in the false reality she is constructing her argument in. Polite jealousy is confusing to some Black people which is why it's so dangerous. You'll have this old hag teaching your kids with all that bias running through her mind. That's why you need to make sure your children know that you're the number one teacher in their lives. You need to counter program day in and out.