The Cookout

[Sapphire]

I have a friend who is getting married. The man she is marrying cheated on her twice in the past. They have been together for 7 years. I feel like she is making a very stupid choice. I get that some people change but he did it twice, with two different women. The first time she caught him after he had been cheating for 4 months on her. The second time was just a year ago. He was sleeping with a married woman. Had a pregnancy scare to boot.

I personally would not have stayed after the first time. I keep telling her she is being stupid.

Would you marry someone who had cheated on you in the past?

 

[GACishere]

Well no they shown that don't respect the relationship or the terms that you wanted
Marriage is a Legal binding document
you leave your significate other like a boyfriend/girlfriend is easy because there is no legal repercussions
Divorce is a whole gamble that is frankly not really worth the risk especially if you can find someone that would not cheat on you

 

[Devin]

Would I marry someone who has cheated in the past? In all honesty, probably not. The reason is, I don't want to be constantly looking over my shoulder to try and figure out whether or not my partner is cheating. That's not a relationship, that's a witch hunt. If you can't be true to your partner, and you can't trust them, then it's my opinion that you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. In conclusion, no, I would not be in a relationship with someone who has cheated in the past.

 

[Jay]

I have a friend who is getting married. The man she is marrying cheated on her twice in the past. They have been together for 7 years. I feel like she is making a very stupid choice. I get that some people change but he did it twice, with two different women. The first time she caught him after he had been cheating for 4 months on her. The second time was just a year ago. He was sleeping with a married woman. Had a pregnancy scare to boot.

I personally would not have stayed after the first time. I keep telling her she is being stupid.

Would you marry someone who had cheated on you in the past?

Depends on why they cheated to be honest. If I wasn’t sexing my partner for whatever reason and she was begging and pleading and she stepped out, that’s understandable to me. If she cheated just because though or because she was disloyal hell no.

 

[Sapphire]

Would I marry someone who has cheated in the past? In all honesty, probably not. The reason is, I don't want to be constantly looking over my shoulder to try and figure out whether or not my partner is cheating. That's not a relationship, that's a witch hunt. If you can't be true to your partner, and you can't trust them, then it's my opinion that you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. In conclusion, no, I would not be in a relationship with someone who has cheated in the past.

That is how I feel about it. Like in my mind, being married will just put more pressure on him to feel the need or desire to cheat.

Depends on why they cheated to be honest. If I wasn’t sexing my partner for whatever reason and she was begging and pleading and she stepped out, that’s understandable to me. If she cheated just because though or because she was disloyal hell no.

He wasn't unhappy with her. They had/have good sex, good communication, he just claimed he was bored and so and so was there and willing. Sounds like the dude will sling d at any woman who spreads her leg if it is convenient for him.