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The Importance of Putting Your Dating Interests In The Right Category

I believe there are 3 categories:

Jump OffSituationshipWife-Material
You hang when you want to bangYou bang but you actually go on dates and tripsYou're serious about her and want to make a commitment

If you put a woman in the wrong category, you'll be in a world of hurt fellas. Some of you put a woman in the wrong category then got her pregnant. But read this simp's story real quick:

Me (Male, 32), met this stunning girl at spin class about 10 months ago. She was young (24), and we instantly hit it off. One day she invited me to a group dinner, and when I went there she was pretty close to another guy (holding hands, being very close), I figured it was her boyfriend, but when she introduced me to him she called him a friend.

I instantly wrote her off. I would see her at spin class every evening after work but I would keep it cordial. Then a month later she texted me asking to hang out, saying she broke up with her ex. She put herself in my orbit, sending me snaps of herself winking at me, it was pretty obvious. When we hung out the chemistry was amazing. We went on several dates, and nothing physical happened.

***No matter what happened after this, he should have put her in the Jump Off category...but he didn't!***

Fast forward to April, and I took her to a sporting event (tickets weren't cheap), then we went back to my place and finally had sex. I've never experienced better sex than this. Over the next several weeks we started hanging out pretty much everyday. She was struggling financially and I even paid her rent for a month (stupid I know), but I really cared about her.

***He's giving a jump off Wife Material Treatment, this is going to end badly***

I would remember everything she tells me, would buy her gifts, would go out of my way to make her feel happy and comfortable. When I asked if she wanted us to be exclusive, she told me she still has feelings for her ex and isn't ready yet. In my mind we were dating since at this point in time we hung out practically everyday together and had a lot of sleepovers, plus doing things like hiking, snowboarding, and many more activities together.

.***He still didn't change course after this. It was another opportunity to put her in the Jump Off category but he did not. ***

After a while I noticed that I was putting in way more effort than she was. Picking her up from work, driving her home, leaving her favorite books at her mailbox, etc. Then she went cold

A lot of my messages were ignored. I played it cool when I saw her at spin class, but then I noticed she was pretty flirty with another guy at the class. Teasing him, playfully touching his arm, laughing hard at his jokes, etc. Then yesterday I was at the class and I overheard them talking about meeting up. My heart hurt.

I played it cool in class, but as soon as it was over I drove home and when I reached my apartment I cried. I never in my life cared more for another human being outside of my family, But no more. I'm not a second option. I now realize she didn't reciprocate these feelings.

Right now its hard to focus on work, I skipped the spin class today because I didn't want to see her. My question is, how do I get over the pain? Any advice is appreciated.

Thank you all, god bless.

This is the kinda shit that has these dudes going the Red Pill way. He misjudged the situation and paid for it. He had all the signs she was a jump off and if he treated her as such he would have knew that it wasn't his, just his turn. When she would have started flirting around he would have knew it was her nature and not have been hurt.

Fellas, if you see thot behaviors don't ignore it. She invited the sucka in the story to eat with the nigga she was smashing...think about that. She had her ex meet the nigga she was gon' leave him for and this sucka was so enamored that he didn't peep game. She did him just like she did her ex.

Don't get caught up, trust your instincts and treat them accordingly. If she doesn't act like a wife, don't treat her like one.

Ancient Knowledge

I noticed many in the dominant society studying the ancient texts of Kemet in an urgent way. Scientist and researchers in anticipation of the global and universe energy shifts are preparing themselves for the new age. What are we the foundation of this knowledge doing to elevate ourselves in preparation of this new energy?

Modern day mp3 player

today's soundscape been pretty disappointing. outside of a few great release a year, I found myself paying for a streaming service every month and I'm mostly listening to older albums. so I decided to go "low tech" and get a modern day music player. it does one thing and does it well.. play music.

so far, I'm loving it. it sounds great. battery last 40+ hours on one charge, Bluetooth support, and plenty of storage.

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Happy Malcolm X day!

One of the greatest fighters for #FBA we celebrate this man because he was uncompromising in the pursuit of justice and empowerment of our people.
drop one of your favorites Malcolm X quotes.

“Any time you beg another man to set you free, you will never be free. Freedom is something that you have to do for yourselves.”

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Integration was a mistake (?)

Recently had a conversation about this with some people on another forum. Some argued for it and others argued against it.

The context is that prior to ending segregation and "white only spaces", black folks had their own spaces and their own economy. When they got rid of this, they were forced to be pushed into the white economy and it ended up hurting black families, business owners, and the livelihood of most black Americans.

Some argue that we need our own black spaces and our own economy back in order to remedy a lot of issues we face.

Others argue that this would be a step backward and is just rolling out segregation siting modern things taking place - such as the separation happening in schools in Cali where they have "POC Only" classes and put all the white kids in a separate space.

I want to see what you all think. You guys seem to have the most insight and knowledge on this stuff and I feel like the people on the other platform weren't fully understanding things. Not only that, many of them were coming from a different perspective being mixed or white.

Is it worth getting a 2-year-old phone factory unlocked?

A friend of mine needs a new phone and wants to get a Galaxy but doesn't want to pay $1000 for a phone. She is looking at getting the S20 for this reason but everything I read said it isn't worth it cause the battery life will not last as long from it sitting around. I think she found a new one for $459. I just don't know if it is worth it if the battery took a massive hit already.

WTF is wrong with Cara Delevingne?

I got three stories for ya'll all tying things together here:




This woman is out there fetishizing black women like they are her own pleasure toys out in public. WTF is wrong with this woman? I don't know anything about her other than she was a model or something. She is acting hella weird though. I would not have been able to keep it together if I was any of these women. I would have slapped the hoe. She has no right to act like a dog in heat and push into these ladies' personal space. I am not the biggest fan of their hoeification in the music industry but ffs, this is not acceptable. Imagine if a dude was doing this. Just another example of white people thinking they can use us as they please.

Luxe & Glam Beauty Supply

Jay submitted a new business:

Luxe & Glam Beauty Supply - Quality hair care products for all hair type

Luxe & Glam is a boutique style Beauty Supply, located in Compton, California. Here at Luxe & Glam, we provide quality hair care products for all hair types. Our store also offers make-up and braid services.

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RAAISE Staffing Solutions

Jay submitted a new business:

RAAISE Staffing Solutions - Connecting Technology & Black Talent

RAAISE Staffing Solutions LLC is the premium career center for employers seeking diverse candidates and job hunters looking for IT positions. We specialize in hard-to-fill cybersecurity jobs.

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How To Survive An Active Shooter

Here are some survival tips to help increase your survivability during an active shooter event. Keep in mind, these are only tips, but they are still important and valuable. Stay safe!
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MoT #143 Will "Fighting For Everyone" Defeat White Supremacy?

White supremacy is based on anti-black racism. That's why the few minor steps made to improve black people's lives have helped everyone.
But now the white media's saying that black people need to stop focusing on themselves and instead "fight for everyone."


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Joe Biden has fake followers on Twitter

Nearly half of President Biden’s 22.2 million Twitter followers are bogus, a new audit revealed.

The audit, which was done for the social media giant by software firm SparkToro, found that 49.3% of the president’s followers are “fake followers,” according to Newsweek.

SparkToro has defined “fake followers” as “accounts that are unreachable and will not see the account’s tweets (either because they’re spam, bots, propaganda, etc. or because they’re no longer active on Twitter).”

Tesla CEO Elon Musk, who is attempting to buy Twitter, has expressed concern over the growing number of fake accounts and proposed a potential crackdown on the sham accounts.


Show of hands, who is truly surprised by this? LOL

Man, this dude is just one joke after the next. He is a good-for-nothing old-ass racist dude who is probably dreaming of the day slavery comes back. I never liked him, not even when Obama picked him. He is one of those spineless snakes that is just looking to pocket some money and he does it with empty promises and incoherent ramblings.

Bots are a huge issue on the platform though. I remember reading about some Chinese group inciting crap between people in the US, using race-baiting and other tactics and it works. People get made a damn fool on Twitter. At this point, I don't understand why anyone would want to be a part of that platform.

California Election

There are ballots going out now for the upcoming governor's election in California. I'm soliciting information for any grassroots vetted candidates that I can place my vote for, and/or add their names on the ballot. So far I'm willing to keep Gov Newsom in, and fill the other positions with our on code people. Thank you for your help in advance ✊🏾

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