If not, what's your philosophy and why?


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@Caprice and I were debating on this in regards to Megan the Stallion but it is a larger issue. How many of you think you know what men need and want instead of actually listening to the man in your life and acting based on what he says? Listen to woman for 2 minutes:

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She is kicking straight up knowledge. I’ve been in situations where I wanted to provide the person I was dating more but she wouldn’t listen to what I needed. They would argue with me about what I needed and then would be upset when I bounced because the next woman would provide me what I needed without issue.

In the Meg the Stallion scenario, the statement is “Protect Black Women” but you can’t tell us to protect when you won’t listen to use when we tell you what’s reasonable behavior. We ask that you be a lady and we’ll protect you…but some women want to be a stank hoe, tramp, hood chick and then still want to demand our protection.

You have to listen to what men say they need, not what you think they should need.

Dang how could you be so dumb!



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Earlier, I was thinking about how we see so many people post on social media, and how different the posts are from their actual life. I always found it funny to see groups of friends recording themselves laughing and having a good time, and as soon as they stop recording they all go back to frowning and not saying a word to each other. I know it has an effect on a lot of people - Especially kids that are constantly seeing these "perfect" lives and feel like their lives don't live up to their expectations. What do you think about social media and how people portray themselves?

Would you date someone if they had any kids? Honestly I have dated some women in the past, and a couple of them had a kid or two. I would say, that having a kid or two is not a deal breaker for me. It's when those kids are annoying brats that it becomes a deal breaker. Like damn, take care of your kids.

What are your views on this? Would you date a woman who already has a kid or two or even more?

I feel like marriage still has value in this world and when you are paired with the right person for you, it makes life easier and more worth living. I know there are a lot of bad examples out there and reasons why it would seem best to avoid marriage but for me, I think it is an important milestone for me to cross when I am in a committed relationship, ideally before having children.

That being said, what do you think are the keys to a successful marriage in today's world? I know the times have changed and it seems like marriage has only gotten harder for a lot of people.

In regards to states, cities, policies, freedom, wealth, opportunities, education, and all that - What spot would you say is best to live in, in the USA?

I was trying to figure this out a few months ago. It seems like each area has its positives and its negatives. Like in Wyoming. Your dollar can stretch far as hell. You can get yourself 10 acres of land with a decent house for under 200k. Property taxes aren't high either. But then you are out in the middle of nowhere with little opportunity so you'd have to be successful online or willing to travel far for work.The education is a mixed bag as well. Not much to do in terms of social luxuries either.

This dude has a whole gator in his front yard, he handles it in a genius fashion though. How often do you see them especially in Southern Florida?

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The question, "what do you bring to the table?" has been stirring up a lot of controversy lately. What would you say if someone asked you that question?

I've actually been asked that before....


Boy bye! No one should have to ask this question if they're having real conversations. But some people answer and start trying to prove their worth. Most women start mentioning, "I cook, clean, operate in my feminine energy...." Sigh. There is only one you and if that person doesn't see what you bring to the table, then they shouldn't have a seat. If they don't notice your worth and your value, then again....


My response would be "I am the table." Tf. You're enough ;)

But what are your thoughts?

We all remember this...

Making $25,000-$30,000 / year
You're broke. You're living with your parents and cannot afford a pot to p*ss in. You are barely making minimum payments on the little bills you have like car and phone and, if you have student loans, you are on income based repayment. At this point it may make sense to get a second job

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? $100 and up
Investment/month - $0


Making $55,000 / year
Welcome to the average club. You can afford basic bills such as rent, car, phone, but anything outside of that is an issue. You may be able to go to a party here and there and live it up but you are barely surviving. If you have a girlfriend, she must have a job to help support the both of you otherwise it will be a HUGE struggle

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? Around $500 and up
Investment/month - Under $1,000


Making $120,000 / year
This is the first stage of your life where you will feel financially free. Not $90,000, not $100,000, but when you're making $10K a month. You can afford anything you want, money, clothes, travel, etc. You can even purchase an upper tier car if you are willing to drop the amount you invest a month. In this tier you should have a nice amount saved up and are able to pay off bills with ease. If you are looking to be super frugal, you could probably pay off all loans (student, car, etc) of up to $30,000 in 12 months

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? Around $2,000 and up
Investment/month - $1,000- $2,000


Making $200,000-$250,000 / year
This is when you start to feel rich. Like really rich. This is what I thought half a million would feel like TBH. You will be able to drop thousands on luxury items and not feel it hit your wallet (why would you, you got another $10-$15K coming next month after taxes). If you have a gf whatever her job is doesn't matter at all as she's essentially paying for trips and other luxury items. If you are super frugal, you can pay off most debts. Your taste will most certainly change at this level in everything from food, to clothes, to women, because you can afford it.

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? $5,000 and up
Investment/month - $2,500-$3,500

yo this is a long video and I don’t want anyone think I surf the webs looking for tranny videos but this is crazy. This a lil documentary that talks about how some transformers be straight up lying or trying to bully their way into straight dude’s pants. The video is timestamped with one transformer kissing a straight dude who didn’t even know.

What do yall think about this nonsense? How would you feel if this happened to you?

Timestamp where the transexual violated the straight man
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My brother joined the military years ago, and has always tried to get me to go. I would have applied to the National Guard, but decided against it pretty fast. Has anyone here been in the military? Or maybe even are still in the military? A friend of mine who is also in the National Guard, has advanced up in it pretty far, and he makes good money from it. But I could never see myself joining the military.

This is a general question about all dates, not like your first date or anything like that. When it comes to going on that first date with someone new, where do you like to go? Do you go to the movies? Out to eat? An event?

I think going out to eat is my preferred way to go. It gives us time to chat, get to know each other and so on. With going to the movies or something similar, you're not able to talk much. So going out to dinner is my preference, because we can talk, and that's what a date should be.

I heard about this yesterday and only just looked it up now. I thought I would make a thread for it.

What do you all think about it? What do you think her motive is for wearing it?