The question, "what do you bring to the table?" has been stirring up a lot of controversy lately. What would you say if someone asked you that question?

I've actually been asked that before....


Boy bye! No one should have to ask this question if they're having real conversations. But some people answer and start trying to prove their worth. Most women start mentioning, "I cook, clean, operate in my feminine energy...." Sigh. There is only one you and if that person doesn't see what you bring to the table, then they shouldn't have a seat. If they don't notice your worth and your value, then again....


My response would be "I am the table." Tf. You're enough ;)

But what are your thoughts?

We all remember this...

Making $25,000-$30,000 / year
You're broke. You're living with your parents and cannot afford a pot to p*ss in. You are barely making minimum payments on the little bills you have like car and phone and, if you have student loans, you are on income based repayment. At this point it may make sense to get a second job

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? $100 and up
Investment/month - $0


Making $55,000 / year
Welcome to the average club. You can afford basic bills such as rent, car, phone, but anything outside of that is an issue. You may be able to go to a party here and there and live it up but you are barely surviving. If you have a girlfriend, she must have a job to help support the both of you otherwise it will be a HUGE struggle

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? Around $500 and up
Investment/month - Under $1,000


Making $120,000 / year
This is the first stage of your life where you will feel financially free. Not $90,000, not $100,000, but when you're making $10K a month. You can afford anything you want, money, clothes, travel, etc. You can even purchase an upper tier car if you are willing to drop the amount you invest a month. In this tier you should have a nice amount saved up and are able to pay off bills with ease. If you are looking to be super frugal, you could probably pay off all loans (student, car, etc) of up to $30,000 in 12 months

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? Around $2,000 and up
Investment/month - $1,000- $2,000


Making $200,000-$250,000 / year
This is when you start to feel rich. Like really rich. This is what I thought half a million would feel like TBH. You will be able to drop thousands on luxury items and not feel it hit your wallet (why would you, you got another $10-$15K coming next month after taxes). If you have a gf whatever her job is doesn't matter at all as she's essentially paying for trips and other luxury items. If you are super frugal, you can pay off most debts. Your taste will most certainly change at this level in everything from food, to clothes, to women, because you can afford it.

One time Expense where you need to rethink budget? $5,000 and up
Investment/month - $2,500-$3,500

yo this is a long video and I don’t want anyone think I surf the webs looking for tranny videos but this is crazy. This a lil documentary that talks about how some transformers be straight up lying or trying to bully their way into straight dude’s pants. The video is timestamped with one transformer kissing a straight dude who didn’t even know.

What do yall think about this nonsense? How would you feel if this happened to you?

Timestamp where the transexual violated the straight man
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My brother joined the military years ago, and has always tried to get me to go. I would have applied to the National Guard, but decided against it pretty fast. Has anyone here been in the military? Or maybe even are still in the military? A friend of mine who is also in the National Guard, has advanced up in it pretty far, and he makes good money from it. But I could never see myself joining the military.

This is a general question about all dates, not like your first date or anything like that. When it comes to going on that first date with someone new, where do you like to go? Do you go to the movies? Out to eat? An event?

I think going out to eat is my preferred way to go. It gives us time to chat, get to know each other and so on. With going to the movies or something similar, you're not able to talk much. So going out to dinner is my preference, because we can talk, and that's what a date should be.

I heard about this yesterday and only just looked it up now. I thought I would make a thread for it.

What do you all think about it? What do you think her motive is for wearing it?

Whatever problem he had, he could have worked it out...

I'm borderline obsessed with colognes, I have an okay collection and I'm always looking for new scents.
I'd love to find a brand or company owned by Black people.

1. Until they #CutTheCheck and that too is #TaxFree

2. Until we ALL get that 40 acres

3. When #BlackTaxing Black ppl is made illegal

4. When we ARE a protected class

5. A Felony Reversal program in installs

Hell I have so many more but I will start with those. How do y'all feel? I am talking ONLY to FBA/ADOS Blacks.

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Monie Love stated in this video on Flavor Flav's podcast a fairly popular opinion on female rappers; that she enjoys the sexual freedom but still believes that there should be more balance. More women that can express themselves in more ways creatively and musically, with varying topics. What do you think about her criticisms? I believe that from my experiences with the fans of said artists (Meg, Cardi, and Doja for example) it's all they want, and if you try to suggest an alternative they'll scoff at anything that isn't familiar. Having said that, hip hop media can do a better job of promoting alternatives.

What are your thoughts?

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why i do em like thaaat

LA County Sheriff‘s Department is 11,000 deputies strong so them having gangs of 300 here or there is not far-fetched. It’s a large force spread over a large geographical region, this makes this department extremely dangerous and leaves many vulnerable to their abuse. Anyone who has been to jail in LA Country has been how brutal they are first hand and how they are a group of lawless thugs.

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I’m not anti-police but definitely anti this miscarriage of justice going on in the USA. A couple crips running around is an indictment on the Black community…gangs sanctioned by the freaking government being issued guns and badges is looked at as ”A few bad apples”.

Jurors have found R&B singer R. Kelly guilty of racketeering, including acts of bribery and sexual exploitation of a child, along with separate charges of sex trafficking.



I don’t like to see a Black man get jammed but R Kelly is a predator.

“Seems Like You’re Ready”
“Age Ain’t Nothin’ But a Number”

He never hid who he was.

If you know you know

What are your thoughts on euthanasia? It's the process of putting a person to rest who is suffering from something that can't be cured or someone who may be in a coma or in a vegetative state. Do you think euthanasia should be allowed?

Honestly, I think we should be allowed to end our lives when we're near death or in incurable pain or sickness. I've seen stories about people in really rough shape, and some not even able to take care of themselves. I think if someone can't be saved and nothing is calming the pain or problems, then I think we should be allowed to end our life.

What is your feeling on this? Should doctors be allowed to perform euthanasia if a patient can't be saved or helped?