… is a popular phrase in our community, but it's not really possible, it's self-destructive (and destructive to the community by extension) and you don't ACTUALLY want to do it.

Emotions cannot be controlled, only accepted or ignored. Ignored emotions are just gonna come back more powerful and/or show up in all types of seemingly unrelated, and certainly destructive ways. Accepted, loved and un-judged emotions will dissipate and reveal a lesson if you are open to it.

The problem isn't emotions, but rather how we habitually interpret them. Emotions ARE NOT a commentary on life, a situation or how someone treats us. They are a natural gift from Source, a barometer/compass that tells us in real time if our thinking aligns with the ultimate Truth of ourselves as God/Source/the Universe sees us.

Very basically, if you feel "bad" (emotionally) in any way at any time, your thinking about yourself is out of alignment with Truth. If you feel "good" (emotionally) in any way at any time, your thinking about yourself is in alignment with Truth.

This can get confusing like when say, someone insults you and you get angry. You get the "bad" emotion because there is, at least, the smallest grain of sand part of you that believes what they said is true. But Source knows that it is not so you get a little jolt (or big jolt, depending upon how much of you agrees). That is your cue to turn inwards, find and give love to that part of you which needs it.

God Universe fitted us with a perfect connection to him/her/it and to "get out of it" is like saying, sever your natural unbroken connection to your maker. Impossible and you actually don't want to do it.

Could you do it?


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I would have beat MJ like a country grass fire after looking at the Steve Kerr situation in practice.


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I have never attempted to date someone who was my boss or was higher up than me. I have had a couple female bosses that I was interested in, but never tried to make a move. And if I did, I probably would have been fired, let's be honest. But, have you ever had a relationship with someone who happened to be your boss or someone higher up than you?

How did it go? Did it result in anyone losing their job? Did you break up and lose your job? What happened?

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I don't think it's cool lumping both in with each other because they're polar opposites, but that's just me

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'We're being pressured into sex by some trans women'​

"There's a common argument that they try and use that goes 'What if you met a woman in a bar and she's really beautiful and you got on really well and you went home and you discovered that she has a penis? Would you just not be interested?'" says Jennie, who lives in London and works in fashion.

"Yes, because even if someone seems attractive at first you can go off them. I just don't possess the capacity to be sexually attracted to people who are biologically male, regardless of how they identify."

Several people got in touch with me to say there was a "huge problem" for lesbians, who were being pressured to "accept the idea that a penis can be a female sex organ".

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You cannot make this up if you wanted to. How long are we going to keep placating this nonsense?

They described being harassed and silenced if they tried to discuss the issue openly. I received online abuse myself when I tried to find interviewees using social media.

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One of the lesbian women I spoke to, 24-year-old Amy*, told me she experienced verbal abuse from her own girlfriend, a bisexual woman who wanted them to have a threesome with a trans woman.

When Amy explained her reasons for not wanting to, her girlfriend became angry.

"The first thing she called me was transphobic," Amy said. "She immediately jumped to make me feel guilty about not wanting to sleep with someone."

She said the trans woman in question had not undergone genital surgery, so still had a penis.

"I know there is zero possibility for me to be attracted to this person," said Amy, who lives in the south west of England and works in a small print and design studio.

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So to rephrase, one of the partners in a lesbian relationship wanted to partake in penile stimulation and thus trojan horsed the concept by inviting a Trans Woman. When her girlfriend rebuked the idea, she bullied her and called her transphobic.

Another lesbian woman, 26-year-old Chloe*, said she felt so pressured she ended up having penetrative sex with a trans woman at university after repeatedly explaining she was not interested.

"I felt very bad for hating every moment, because the idea is we are attracted to gender rather than sex, and I did not feel that, and I felt bad for feeling like that," she said.

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So she willfully accepted a piping because she felt it was a woman with a penis and was disappointed that she didn't like it because the penis broke the illusion that she was with a woman.




If sexuality was a Christopher Nolan movie then this is Inception and we're now in Limbo.

I have a co-worker, let's just call her Karen (lol).

Karen likes to come into work every day and go on and on about how her good-for-nothing boyfriend and his good-for-nothing friends don't do anything. She has 2 kids with this guy, unmarried. One week he is cheating on her (so she thinks) and the next she is talking about cheating on him. I like to keep the peace at work and let people vent to me if they have to but this has been going on for a good 3 months now and I am tired of it. Karen is not a happy person and her drama is bringing me down.

How can I tell her that I don't want to hear this stuff anymore without her taking it wrong and causing tension at work?

They got me this morning, not sure why. They won't even let me appeal it. My new Twitter account is @x0gun1

does that vindicate black men?


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Hey everyone,

What do you think about Jon Gruden's emails that recently surfaced?

Do you feel pressure to agree with the push to label the content homophobic or racist?

Do you think the league is using Gruden as a scapegoat, unwilling to address the blatant racist culture of the NFL in general?

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The Twitter link is a thread of the most important excerpts from the interview.