The Cookout

[Stan Zero]

Could you live without a partner? To be honest I am kinda happy when I am alone sometimes. I am a night owl and often stay up really late, so that time is like my time. I like to relax, watch YouTube, tv, movies, listen to music, smoke, etc. I like the peace and quiet from being alone. I of course don't want to be alone forever, but more so a time of day for me to be by myself.

I think we can all use time alone sometimes to get away from everything.

 

[sourgrapes]

Short term yeah, long term no. I like my space but I also want to have a family and someone to grow old with. I don't like the idea of riding out my 50's and beyond alone.

 

[Boss Hog]

Nope. Love is like food and water, we need it to live. This is why people that don’t have it go to extremes to find it.

 

[Blackgravity]

I could.

 

[Banks]

I think we all need some time to ourselves, but I think eventually we do need the love. I'm all for having a night where I'm alone and can relax, but I also am for a night with the missus. I feel when you find someone you can grow old with, being alone feels pointless, because if you trust someone, why be alone when you can be with them?

Also, I think being alone for too long, kinda does a disservice to you, because you're not growing when you're alone. You grow when you're around people.

 

[Stan Zero]

Short term yeah, long term no. I like my space but I also want to have a family and someone to grow old with. I don't like the idea of riding out my 50's and beyond alone.

Yeah, I think eventually I will want to settle down, but currently I'm cool with being alone sometimes. But I know down the road, I'm going to want to settle down with a woman and have a family. I think I will still like my alone time, but of course anyone is allowed that much.

Nope. Love is like food and water, we need it to live. This is why people that don’t have it go to extremes to find it.

I agree. For now I'm cool being alone, but I'm working on building a good career first, then marriage and starting a family would begin. :)

I think we all need some time to ourselves, but I think eventually we do need the love. I'm all for having a night where I'm alone and can relax, but I also am for a night with the missus. I feel when you find someone you can grow old with, being alone feels pointless, because if you trust someone, why be alone when you can be with them?

Also, I think being alone for too long, kinda does a disservice to you, because you're not growing when you're alone. You grow when you're around people.

Exactly! I think we all need time to ourselves, especially when in a relationship. For now I'm just focussed on myself, and when the time comes and I find that special someone, I will take more time for that instead of being alone lol.

 

[sourgrapes]

Yeah, I think eventually I will want to settle down, but currently I'm cool with being alone sometimes. But I know down the road, I'm going to want to settle down with a woman and have a family. I think I will still like my alone time, but of course anyone is allowed that much.

Just make sure you are with a woman who is comfortable with giving you your own space and you won't have any issues. You have a bit more time on your side to be alone. For us ladies, we need to get our crap in order if we want children. lol