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Ever lose interest in your partner?

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Whether it be your partner, spouse, etc. Have you ever lost your interest your partner to the point where you no longer are interested in dating? There was only one girl in my life that I dated, and like a lot at first, but then just lost interest in not too long after. For me, it wasn't anything about the attraction I had for her, she's a beautiful woman, but her attitude, and anger were a big turn off fast. I believe she was undiagnosed bipolar, because she would be chill and happy one second, and then the next she'd find a reason to be mad.

Like one time, we were going to see an NBA game. I had invited one of my friends and his girlfriend as I had two other tickets. My girlfriend was all for it, and happy to meet my friends girlfriend. But the morning of the game, she started to get anxious and mad for no reason. It's like she literally woke up on the wrong side of the bed. We went to the game, and she was just mopping all game, wouldn't talk and wasn't paying attention to the game. So I ended up breaking it off with her a week later after she acted up on me for some other nonsense I've since forgotten.

But, have you ever lost interest in a partner? Maybe for the reason I specified, or maybe it was something completely different.
 

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    Whether it be your partner, spouse, etc. Have you ever lost your interest your partner to the point where you no longer are interested in dating? There was only one girl in my life that I dated, and like a lot at first, but then just lost interest in not too long after. For me, it wasn't anything about the attraction I had for her, she's a beautiful woman, but her attitude, and anger were a big turn off fast. I believe she was undiagnosed bipolar, because she would be chill and happy one second, and then the next she'd find a reason to be mad.

    Like one time, we were going to see an NBA game. I had invited one of my friends and his girlfriend as I had two other tickets. My girlfriend was all for it, and happy to meet my friends girlfriend. But the morning of the game, she started to get anxious and mad for no reason. It's like she literally woke up on the wrong side of the bed. We went to the game, and she was just mopping all game, wouldn't talk and wasn't paying attention to the game. So I ended up breaking it off with her a week later after she acted up on me for some other nonsense I've since forgotten.

    But, have you ever lost interest in a partner? Maybe for the reason I specified, or maybe it was something completely different.
    Yes and my relationship turned into a child support payment.
     

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    Yeah I have. He was a really good guy but we just didn't stay emotionally connected. He was the type of guy that would just stay with someone because it was easier than breaking up. I needed more and I felt like I was just the easiest option for him.
    Oh hell nah, you're way better than that Lex, I'm glad you left him.