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Dating a woman who also is into women

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Would you be okay if you were in a relationship with a woman and she was bi-sexual and wanted to also see/date women as well? I think some men would find this a dream come true, but I don't think all men would. To me, I don't mind if my girlfriend likes women, but I don't know if I'd be into sharing her with another woman. I mean, I would for sure be into a 3-way, but even then I would be paranoid that the other woman would steal my girl away.

What do you think? Would you allow your girlfriend or wife to be with a woman? If it was a dude, we'd be furious about it, but I feel like if another woman was involved, it wouldn't go over as bad.
 

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    Would you be okay if you were in a relationship with a woman and she was bi-sexual and wanted to also see/date women as well? I think some men would find this a dream come true, but I don't think all men would. To me, I don't mind if my girlfriend likes women, but I don't know if I'd be into sharing her with another woman. I mean, I would for sure be into a 3-way, but even then I would be paranoid that the other woman would steal my girl away.

    What do you think? Would you allow your girlfriend or wife to be with a woman? If it was a dude, we'd be furious about it, but I feel like if another woman was involved, it wouldn't go over as bad.
    It’s only cool if she wants to bring the other woman into the bed with both of y’all. If not, she is basically just cheating on you with the same gender.
     

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    Would you be okay if you were in a relationship with a woman and she was bi-sexual and wanted to also see/date women as well? I think some men would find this a dream come true, but I don't think all men would. To me, I don't mind if my girlfriend likes women, but I don't know if I'd be into sharing her with another woman. I mean, I would for sure be into a 3-way, but even then I would be paranoid that the other woman would steal my girl away.

    What do you think? Would you allow your girlfriend or wife to be with a woman? If it was a dude, we'd be furious about it, but I feel like if another woman was involved, it wouldn't go over as bad.
    If I were dating a bisexual, a three-way with a woman probably wouldn't fly with me so I'll utilize substitution.

    I could see myself being ecstatic at 1st, then apprehensive if my man wanted to bring another man into the bedroom. But I think both responses would be a commentary on myself begging for self inquiry than anything else. Just another invitation to healing so let's do it.
     
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    If I were dating a bisexual, a three-way with a woman probably wouldn't fly with me so I'll utilize substitution.

    I could see myself being ecstatic at 1st, then apprehensive if my man wanted to bring another man into the bedroom. But I think both responses would be a commentary on myself begging for self inquiry than anything else. Just another invitation to healing so let's do it.
    I followed your link for your podcast.The story sounds dope asf.I listened to some.I was just wondering if you produced your audiobook? Like i said.I was judt wondering.The audio sounds great.O yea.I share and share alike so I already shared your link.
     

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    I followed your link for your podcast.The story sounds dope asf.I listened to some.I was just wondering if you produced your audiobook? Like i said.I was judt wondering.The audio sounds great.O yea.I share and share alike so I already shared your link.
    Yeah bruh the production is A1 I wanted to link you two up.
     

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    My answer is that such an arrangement is not for me in a marriage. As the Good Book says, "... the two shall become one flesh". Not three.

    I first encountered this situation in my first year out of high school. I was literally shocked when the room mate of the girl I was with came into the bedroom.

    I actually considered marrying a bi-sexual girl during my late twenties. She was a hard core yuppie, with lots of good housewife skills. We could have made a great power couple. However, when I asked her the crucial question; " who is the head of the house?" She gave an answer that permanently removed her from consideration. She answered "whomever is the most qualified".
     

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    I followed your link for your podcast.The story sounds dope asf.I listened to some.I was just wondering if you produced your audiobook? Like i said.I was judt wondering.The audio sounds great.O yea.I share and share alike so I already shared your link.
    Thank you, yes. It's all produced, written, directed, and sound designed by myself.
    We appreciate your support.
     

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    Thats whats up. I just jumped in audiobook production. Im learning but I listened to yours and I can hear differences.But like I said I like the story.Do you do video? Like movies.
    Filmmaking is actually more so, my background. The idea of the "AudioScripts" (as I like to call them) came later after I developed multiple sclerosis, which uprooted my film flow. But I have been inching back into that space. I'm available if you need advice.
     

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    I have a bisexual friend and I can tell you, any time she has been in a relationship with a man, it always went south. Why? Cause he gets greedy. He wants two women. Guess what? When he starts stressing her out, she singles him out and started going to the woman more and more, and eventually dumps his ass for her. Tread lightly!
     

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    My answer is that such an arrangement is not for me in a marriage. As the Good Book says, "... the two shall become one flesh". Not three.

    I first encountered this situation in my first year out of high school. I was literally shocked when the room mate of the girl I was with came into the bedroom.

    I actually considered marrying a bi-sexual girl during my late twenties. She was a hard core yuppie, with lots of good housewife skills. We could have made a great power couple. However, when I asked her the crucial question; " who is the head of the house?" She gave an answer that permanently removed her from consideration. She answered "whomever is the most qualified".
    You said all that bull jive in the beginning only to disqualify her due to her thirst for dominance rather than for the box. \\

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    If she was submissive you’d be laying next to her and you all’s girlfriend.
     

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    You said all that bull jive in the beginning only to disqualify her due to her thirst for dominance rather than for the box. \\

    Will Smith Haha

    If she was submissive you’d be laying next to her and you all’s girlfriend.
    Thank goodness I came to my senses. If you have been married you know that one is enough. Having a successful marriage is not easy, having to deal with more than one woman would be over the top in complexity.
     

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    Thank goodness I came to my senses. If you have been married you know that one is enough. Having a successful marriage is not easy, having to deal with more than one woman would be over the top in complexity.
    Without question. When those monthly cycles sync and you have two emotional roller coasters to ride in a single week:

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    “I think I’m cool on threesomes for now”