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Don't Hit Your Head

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If you hit your head, you might turn into a MAP

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Interest in sexual activity typically increases when an individual reaches puberty.[6] Although no single theory on the cause of sexual orientation has yet gained widespread support, there is considerably more evidence supporting nonsocial causes of sexual orientation than social ones, especially for males. Hypothesized social causes are supported by only weak evidence, distorted by numerous confounding factors.[7] This is further supported by cross-cultural evidence, because cultures that are very tolerant of homosexuality do not have significantly higher rates of it.
 
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They can called it whatever they want. I have heard about this before. But it's ludicrous
 

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    My eldest was raped and molested when she was very young. I still want to kill. He is protected by my baby's mom's family. They are all part of a religous "cult". Pedophiles and sex offenders are the same to me. Zero tolerance for any of them.
    Did you at least put the mittens on the offender?
    They can called it whatever they want. I have heard about this before. But it's ludicrous
    She was trying to push the minor attracted persons label which is like a euphemism.

    HOWEVER, we have to be able to talk and not demonize pedophilia because we wont be able to treat people who have those emotions. So there’s a balancing act where we have to be able to talk about it without trying to normalize it.
     
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    Did you at least put the mittens on the offender?

    She was trying to push the minor attracted persons label which is like a euphemism.

    HOWEVER, we have to be able to talk and not demonize pedophilia because we wont be able to treat people who have those emotions. So there’s a balancing act where we have to be able to talk about it without trying to normalize it.
    He was and has been in prison since the incident but not for my daughter. I personally took my baby to the authorities and filed charges. I had to listen to her testimony too.
     
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    I get it, but I think that's something maybe the therapist and those working directly with those individuals can do.

    The general public is not about to change the language to make them feel better.

    It's difficult for me to view it as a disease and they are victims. But that's what I feel individuals who support this are asking for.

    The only reason that someone knows outside a therapist is if the person does something to get charged as a sex offender.

    She was trying to say that there are people who just are attracted to minors but wouldn't act on it. And that it's okay for them to do so. Nah that's insane to me.

    It's apart of this sexually fluid trend. But minors imo are not to be lusted over in any way.

    But I will say this. Humans historically in the past were sexually activity as soon as the female had her period ( in some cultures)

    Elvis was 24 when he met Priscilla (14 at the time) and they started "dating"
    Suspicious Meme GIF by MOODMAN
     

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    Did you at least put the mittens on the offender?

    She was trying to push the minor attracted persons label which is like a euphemism.

    HOWEVER, we have to be able to talk and not demonize pedophilia because we wont be able to treat people who have those emotions. So there’s a balancing act where we have to be able to talk about it without trying to normalize it.
    Years ago, I was in the mental health field. My doc told me that if a guy is masturbating while watching the playground, he's fixable. Once a man touches a kid you will have to put a bullet in him. He stated that their brains will now be dependent on that particular dopamine high.
     

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    I get it, but I think that's something maybe the therapist and those working directly with those individuals can do.

    The general public is not about to change the language to make them feel better.

    It's difficult for me to view it as a disease and they are victims. But that's what I feel individuals who support this are asking for.

    The only reason that someone knows outside a therapist is if the person does something to get charged as a sex offender.

    She was trying to say that there are people who just are attracted to minors but wouldn't act on it. And that it's okay for them to do so. Nah that's insane to me.

    It's apart of this sexually fluid trend. But minors imo are not to be lusted over in any way.

    But I will say this. Humans historically in the past were sexually activity as soon as the female had her period ( in some cultures)

    Elvis was 24 when he met Priscilla (14 at the time) and they started "dating"
    Suspicious Meme GIF by MOODMAN
    I'll leave this here.
    Jerry Lee Lewis and his 13 year old cousin.

    lewises.jpg
     

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    I get it, but I think that's something maybe the therapist and those working directly with those individuals can do.

    The general public is not about to change the language to make them feel better.

    It's difficult for me to view it as a disease and they are victims. But that's what I feel individuals who support this are asking for.

    The only reason that someone knows outside a therapist is if the person does something to get charged as a sex offender.

    She was trying to say that there are people who just are attracted to minors but wouldn't act on it. And that it's okay for them to do so. Nah that's insane to me.

    It's apart of this sexually fluid trend. But minors imo are not to be lusted over in any way.

    But I will say this. Humans historically in the past were sexually activity as soon as the female had her period ( in some cultures)

    Elvis was 24 when he met Priscilla (14 at the time) and they started "dating"
    Suspicious Meme GIF by MOODMAN
    I feel your point and it's a slippery slope.

    I think that going to a therapist and handling it there is better than trying to change the language as you have stated. But I do think we need to capture the state where they have the thought but don't act and we need to be able to direct them to help.

    If we just group them in with offenders and throw them away then they will progress to the stage of touching.
    Years ago, I was in the mental health field. My doc told me that if a guy is masturbating while watching the playground, he's fixable. Once a man touches a kid you will have to put a bullet in him. He stated that their brains will now be dependent on that particular dopamine high.
    See this is what I think we need to be able to discuss.

    The person that is masturbating while looking at the playground should not be grouped in the same category as the person touching kids because IMO they will be less likely to seek treatment.

    We need to look at it as sexual deviancy and treat it as such. But when they actually touch kids...I know what I would do if someone touched my son.

    It would be nothing nice. They'd find them in an alligator somewhere in Florida.