Everything doesn't apply to everyone, that should be an assumed understanding.I never said ALL and would never say ALL. I said MOST. And what I said applies to most. Again, I don't hate Black immigrants and never will. But I refuse to pretend that they are allies of FBAs when they clearly are not.
The notion of a Black diaspora is comical because there exists no unity between FBAs, Caribbeans and Africans.
I have a friend from Nigeria now living in PA. We worked together as paralegals years ago. He had a law degree in Nigeria or London, but never passed the bar exam. He's taken it several times since I last saw him. He told me he's worked various odd jobs over the years since moving from Long Island to PA. Very nice guy, but acting like ALL Nigerians are success stories is comical. There are Nigerians who sit on the Internet all day pretending to be white men/white women and Forex traders -- SCAM ARTISTS. There are many Nigerian women who beg men online for money. So if we want to talk about "model" Blacks like Nigerians, let's also talk about the SCAM ARTISTS and hustlers too, but y'all don't have the balls as men to have that conversation.
This notion that all FBAs chase sex, are lazy and lack motivation is laughable and offensive.I had two sick parents (heart disease, Parkinson's) in the 90s and a sibling with Down Syndrome while working full-time as a mail carrier in another county and going to school part-time at night. I obtained my degree in 1996. I lost both parents in 1997. A lazy person would not have persevered for years like I did while dealing with all that I dealt with. And there are more like me, but people like you won't know that because you get your cowardly white talking points from cowardly white mainstream media like CNN (Clown News Network), MSNBC and FOX Noose. Some FBAs must have bullied you cats in middle school and you never received therapy for the emotional scars. Sad human beings.
I have had ample opportunity to observe the actions and attitudes of a great number of people, so you are unable to refute or "correct" what I have witnessed, no matter how distasteful the conclusions may be.
It is difficult to have a reasonably intelligent conversation with someone who attempts to attack any comment that doesn't echo his opinion. The reference to my observations as being "talking points" from various news media, and insinuations about imagined past bullying, is disappointing.
Finally, I commend you for persevering in spite of a challenging family situation.