The Cookout

[MR-D-ROB]

I guess it is considered outdated now, but I met my wife on a phone chatline. We talked liked each others conversation. We set up a date for that weekend and have been together ever since!

 

[John Horse lineage]

I guess it is considered outdated now, but I met my wife on a phone chatline. We talked liked each others conversation. We set up a date for that weekend and have been together ever since!

I guess it’s not how you met it’s who you met!!Thats what’s up that y’all still together

 

[John Horse lineage]

My mother actually lined it up for me, I was in Alaska and she was back in Philly.She was my mother’s neighbor and my mother vetted her out and like how she carried herself.Showed her pictures of me and put in a good word so by the time I came back to Philly which was a two year stint it was basically in the bag for me lol. We been together every since (14yrs 2kids) on our King Size Bed lol inside joke

 

[MR-D-ROB]

I guess it’s not how you met it’s who you met!!Thats what’s up that y’all still together

Yeps still together. Almost 17 years now. 2 kids.
California king size bed. Baby girl sleeps terribly! I'll wake up with bruise anything smaller! LOL

 

[John Horse lineage]

Yeps still together. Almost 17 years now. 2 kids.
California king size bed. Baby girl sleeps terribly! I'll wake up with bruise anything smaller! LOL

That’s what’s up, I know your pain lol.We experienced a queen in the beginning with our two sons.When I tell you I used to have to damn near sleep on the edge lol

 

[MR-D-ROB]

That’s what’s up, I know your pain lol.We experienced a queen in the beginning with our two sons.When I tell you I used to have to damn near sleep on the edge lol

Yeps, A California king and we are both skinny and yet there isn't enough room for us both! It's like she gets sideways by midnight! Or her butt is pushed all the way to my edge of the bed!

 

[John Horse lineage]

Yeps, A California king and we are both skinny and yet there isn't enough room for us both! It's like she gets sideways by midnight! Or her butt is pushed all the way to my edge of the bed!

Lol I know exactly what your talking about

 

[Troy]

I guess it is considered outdated now, but I met my wife on a phone chatline. We talked liked each others conversation. We set up a date for that weekend and have been together ever since!

You just took me back. I remember heading to the pay phone with a calling card trying to call the naughty lines.

 

[Jay]

My mother actually lined it up for me, I was in Alaska and she was back in Philly.She was my mother’s neighbor and my mother vetted her out and like how she carried herself.Showed her pictures of me and put in a good word so by the time I came back to Philly which was a two year stint it was basically in the bag for me lol. We been together every since (14yrs 2kids) on our King Size Bed lol inside joke

Yeps still together. Almost 17 years now. 2 kids.
California king size bed. Baby girl sleeps terribly! I'll wake up with bruise anything smaller! LOL

Beautiful stories. Mine is not as special but my lady saw a video of me playing Bass and hit me up online.

 

[MR-D-ROB]

You just took me back. I remember heading to the pay phone with a calling card trying to call the naughty lines.

Them chatlines used to be like the old school POF. Except the chatlines worked better. I could count on the chatlines for a hook up every time.

 

[Troy]

Them chatlines used to be like the old school POF. Except the chatlines worked better. I could count on the chatlines for a hook up every time.

You still needed game on chatlines so the lame niggas wasnt flooding it like they do now when you can fire off a text message.

 

[MR-D-ROB]

You still needed game on chatlines so the lame niggas wasnt flooding it like they do now when you can fire off a text message.

Exactly. You had to know how to talk and fire up some conversation. You can send the best message to a chick now and it just gets buried with all the lames.
Even back then I was bold though. I'd just walk up to the finest chick and start a convo. I by passed asking for a number I would just be like let's hang out later on.

 

[Troy]

Exactly. You had to know how to talk and fire up some conversation. You can send the best message to a chick now and it just gets buried with all the lames.
Even back then I was bold though. I'd just walk up to the finest chick and start a convo. I by passed asking for a number I would just be like let's hang out later on.

Now it’s all over. Now you solo. How do you feel being out of the game?

 

[MR-D-ROB]

Now it’s all over. Now you solo. How do you feel being out of the game?

I love it. Now that I'm older I don't want to be out chasing tail. I just enjoy piece and relaxing. It's nice to have a girl that I like and we can accomplish and do stuff together.

 

[Troy]

I love it. Now that I'm older I don't want to be out chasing tail. I just enjoy piece and relaxing. It's nice to have a girl that I like and we can accomplish and do stuff together.

I feel the same but for some reason my desire for other women has not went away. I don’t cheat but if I see a thick one I have to look.

 

[John Horse lineage]

I feel the same but for some reason my desire for other women has not went away. I don’t cheat but if I see a thick one I have to look.

I’m mean at the end of the day you’re still a heterosexual man🤷🏾‍♂️.Most rules are you can look but don’t touch lol

 

[Troy]

I’m mean at the end of the day you’re still a heterosexual man🤷🏾‍♂️.Most rules are you can look but don’t touch lol

Well that makes me feel better. I thought the feeling was supposed to go away.

 

[MR-D-ROB]

Well that makes me feel better. I thought the feeling was supposed to go away.

Yeah my wife doesn't really care if I look real quick. She just gets mad if I state and just keep looking.

Pretty much get a peek and leave it alone!

 

[Troy]

Yeah my wife doesn't really care if I look real quick. She just gets mad if I state and just keep looking.

Pretty much get a peek and leave it alone!

Thats fair.

 

[ProMoatBlack]

I met my wife in a intro to ethnic studies class in school. We were homies for like 2 months then during summer break made it official bf and gf. Dated4 years then married in 2016.

 

[MR-D-ROB]

I met my wife in a intro to ethnic studies class in school. We were homies for like 2 months then during summer break made it official bf and gf. Dated4 years then married in 2016.

That's pretty cool!

 

[ProMoatBlack]

That's pretty cool!

Much appreciated. I had to cash out early. When she cook clean and is open to freaky things got a put a ring on it Also a supportive woman who allows you the full range of human emotions and still respects and is attracted to you is something to be cherished when found.

 

[bomb]

By accident. I guess, like most people, I was looking for something new and different to do on Facebook. A friend of mine posted a message asking anyone interested in starting an online business to join him. He had been working with a group of women that were doing pretty well and asked me if I would be interested in joining them as well. The one thing led to the other, and here we are....and by the way, the business failed! :-)

 

[MR-D-ROB]

By accident. I guess, like most people, I was looking for something new and different to do on Facebook. A friend of mine posted a message asking anyone interested in starting an online business to join him. He had been working with a group of women that were doing pretty well and asked me if I would be interested in joining them as well. The one thing led to the other, and here we are....and by the way, the business failed! :-)

But you got a wife out of it. That's far more valuable.

 

[Goodness]

You just took me down memory lane. I still remember that day.
I met him on a bus going back to school. He was so cute and I told him so.
We got talking and is still talking

 

[Ravenfreak]

My wife and I met in high school, but we didn't start dating until the end of September of 2008. We both graduated that year too, and we rushed into a relationship so we broke it off since we didn't know each other that well. We remained friends until June of 2009, and finally got married in 2020. Turns out she had a huge crush on me throughout high school but I was too blind to see. :V

 

[Sapphire]

Not married. Not serious with anyone either.

Part of me is hoping for a wild or rare encounter so I have a cool story to tell my kids someday but knowing me, I will meet my future husband at the grocery store and he will be helping me pick up the busted dozen eggs my clumsy self just dropped on the floor!

 

[GwynShivers]

I feel the same but for some reason my desire for other women has not went away. I don’t cheat but if I see a thick one I have to look.

Attraction will always be there, it's a part of our nature. Discipline & loyalty are key.

 

[GwynShivers]

I met my husband on FB. The weird thing is, my Father had been telling me about him since I was 5 years old & I've dreamed of him even before my Father mentioned him.
When I saw his profile picture, I recognized him immediately. It took us a year before we became exclusive & gradually started to tell each other premonitions that proved to be not coincidences.
We've been together longer than most.

 

[Deleted member 884]

I was hanging out with his roommate in their apartment because homey said other girls would be there. There weren’t other girls, so I used my husband who was minding his own business on his rare day off to get away from the guy and I fell in love. 😂😂

 

[educatedman23]

Although I am not married, I am looking forward to read some insightful material.

 

[Maxwell]

I guess it is considered outdated now, but I met my wife on a phone chatline. We talked liked each others conversation. We set up a date for that weekend and have been together ever since!

It's more like what we have today with all the dating sites. A good friend of mine Jack meet his wife from a dating site. It all started as a joke but before we know what's happening, things got really crazy and serious with both of them. They have been married for 3 years now with a kid.

 

[educatedman23]

It's more like what we have today with all the dating sites. A good friend of mine Jack meet his wife from a dating site. It all started as a joke but before we know what's happening, things got really crazy and serious with both of them. They have been married for 3 years now with a kid.

Wow. This is a good success story.

 

[Tati 304]

My mother actually lined it up for me, I was in Alaska and she was back in Philly.She was my mother’s neighbor and my mother vetted her out and like how she carried herself.Showed her pictures of me and put in a good word so by the time I came back to Philly which was a two year stint it was basically in the bag for me lol. We been together every since (14yrs 2kids) on our King Size Bed lol inside joke

You can't get any better than that she knows you inside and out.

 

[educatedman23]

Wow. This is a good success story.

I agree.

 

[Samuelrejoyce]

We met each other in an interview, the rest is history.

 

[Deleted member 405]

I used to deliver where she worked I was in a bad mood but she stayed messing with me every time I went there....The rest as they say its history lol

 

[Christybabe]

I met my husband in school. He was in his third year and I was just getting in. It was love at first sight for me because he was very cute☺️, we dated for 3 years and have being married for 12.

 

[Heatice]

I guess it is considered outdated now, but I met my wife on a phone chatline. We talked liked each others conversation. We set up a date for that weekend and have been together ever since!

Congratulations mate. The real truth is that it's very difficult for you to meet anyone who's real enough to be the same thing with what you got online when you guys started talking. Most people are completely different from what they pose as on social media to what they are in real life.