Can you show examples of a response that was not productive or constructive?I wasn't negative in my response. I don't care what your opinion is but you can state how you feel in a more productive and constructive way.
Can you show examples of a response that was not productive or constructive?I wasn't negative in my response. I don't care what your opinion is but you can state how you feel in a more productive and constructive way.
Your response was neither.Can you show examples of a response that was not productive or constructive?
I don’t go by anyone else’s standards. So I can’t relate. I’m not concerned with what others are doing.Because of the absurd new normal.
ask me why?
That’s your opinion. You said something men should be doing, Men responded back “NOPE!” and to me that’s productive and constructive because it gives you the reality of the situation. I mentioned my income just so you understand that if someone in the top 10%’ of income earners thinks your request is absurd just imagine what the rest of the earners think. Well you heard some of their opinions in the thread but you dismissed them all as negative.Your response was neither.
Okay so I'll have to retract and explain myself to help you understand where I was coming from. I don't identify nor do I know the woman in the video. From my experience, knowledge and wisdom I made my statement. That statement was coming from me and nowhere else. I was not agreeing or "ya girl" nothing. The responses I read on here are full of anger and frustration. I do not know where all that comes from. I was thinking from logic not from what other people think or what is talked about. Furthermore if you have to struggle to have at least $400 dollars in your wallet in this day and time you should NOT be dating and I stand with that. I say that simply because of the obvious. If most men on here are trying to just find women to have sex with then yes it doesn't take much if any money at all to get that. But if you want a real women to feel secure with the fact that you can provide for her then you need to show her that on your date. You should not be struggling trying to date. No man should be mistreated or misused. Yes be smart but don't lump all Black women in the same category. Seeing just about every man respond negatively really hurts my feelings because I'm not seen as an individual but just someone in a sea of women you can pick through. And you proved me right by responding to my statement the way you did. You looked at that and just went in and I didn't deserve that because you do not know me.That’s your opinion. You said something men should be doing, Men responded back “NOPE!” and to me that’s productive and constructive because it gives you the reality of the situation. I mentioned my income just so you understand that if someone in the top 10%’ of income earners thinks your request is absurd just imagine what the rest of the earners think. Well you heard some of their opinions in the thread but you dismissed them all as negative.
I'm not even dropping $90 on a first date. A first date is going to be cost neutral. There are far too many money hungry chicks out there. I can't count the number of dates I have been on where I ended up hittin and then later decided that the chick wasn't worth my time.They are delusional and they will end up lonely.
You have to go out of your way though...you'd have to go to Ruth Chris, Mastros, etc or go clubbing and buy a bunch of drinks. You can take her to outback drop $90 and then go for a walk in the park.
I wonder she was expecting the man to pay her for the date or something? Some ladies are outright crazy in ways that you wouldn't expect it. I'm very sure that it's not going to pass those clout chases on social media platforms like Instagram and Tinder etc.This chick is crazy, expecting a man to bring $200-$400 on a date. Even if I had that type of money, I wouldn't bring that much cash on a date. Simps enable this behavior, and women like her think that all men are going to cater to them.