One of the sad byproducts of black kids who are half white and this current labeling of them as 'biracial' and them thinking they are different than Blacks is what happens at school in white school districts.
The guys get teased. In order to fit in, I've heard they let their so called white friends say n*gger around them and call them that. And they do that fake, accepting , beta laugh it off. Very common.
Worse for the girls. Many half white boys will just keep to themselves than have their dignity compromised. Depends on who they are as a person and how their parents are.
Girls, mentally want to feel accepted and fit in more than boys. Girls typically have a stronger need for acceptance at those ages. I've started at a black school and finished at a different HS in the suburbs (better for college) and what I've seen and heard as well from others is that many of these 'biracial' girls will let the white boys run through them in order to be accepted. Not all but it happens way too much. They only date white boys, will never date black boys at all. And white boys can sense some girl who is desperate for acceptance and they will exploit it. Again, this is something I've seen a lot and it seems especially if mom is white and a single mom. Those tend to want white acceptance the most. No black parent to give them some stronger sense of self. My boy from Chicago knew a biracial girl from her school that started with a white boy friend, after he smashsed as much as he wanted, he quit her, then other white boys started 'dating' her. It got to the point the white boys on the football team were running trains on her.
Eventually no one wanted to f*ck with her openly, just treat her as a jump off, late night hook up on weekends, at the after game party, etc. He said she eventually left the city moved, scrubbed all her social media of her and white boys and white people and started dating brothers only.
Also, back in the day, you didn't see black child suicides. It was never a thing. Today there are an unprecedented amount of black kids committing suicide and a number of them are biracials who can't fit in and are teased mercilessly and bullied by racist classmates.
Nothing wrong with embracing both sides you are from but anything that makes you 1. ashamed or angry at your black side. 2. Makes you compromise your integrity and dignity to be accepted by white folks by saying or doing things that are counter productive and 3. f*cks with your self worth
is never, ever good. I met one brother from Toronto who didn't know Drake but since he's basically the only mega Black celeb in town (other than Vince Carter) in town, you hear everything about him. The reason why he probably was teased like that was from what my boy said who grew up hood Toronto (yeah they got a hood) was that he was culturally suburban white and had to 'learn' to be black late in life. Obama went through this as well. He grew up with next to no black people in Hawaii and in college he hung with the international students. It wasn't till at either Colombia University or Harvard he started being Black and afterwards instead of getting literally any job he wanted being Harvard Law Review editor, he went to Chicago to be a professor and community organizer. He adopted his black heritage late. Also, he had two choices to wifey, Michelle and this white girl and he went with Michelle because he was looking towards politics and it was a better look. His way of talking and giving speeches with that church cadence he learned from Reverend Wright's church in Chicago.