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As me where we ever truly valued?!?

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For all the men who try to make it happen with the family! beat the odds and land mines united snakes of America has built into every law and legislation.you as a original Master creation of the creator fight through all that!🫡and think you are going to get your happy ever after.You will surely come to the realization There is no happily ever Afters!! who are we kidding we lock ourselves into everything under the sun just to work ourselves to death and be called one of the good ones?!?!I pos this question what does it mean to be that in 2023?
Come On What GIF by Bernardson.com
 

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    For all the men who try to make it happen with the family! beat the odds and land mines united snakes of America has built into every law and legislation.you as a original Master creation of the creator fight through all that!🫡and think you are going to get your happy ever after.You will surely come to the realization There is no happily ever Afters!! who are we kidding we lock ourselves into everything under the sun just to work ourselves to death and be called one of the good ones?!?!I pos this question what does it mean to be that in 2023?
    Come On What GIF by Bernardson.com
    You have control over what you value and what fulfills you. We don’t have to stay on particular tracks of life if we don’t want to. Also there will times where our efforts aren’t valued….that’s a sign that you’re around the wrong people.
     

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    For all the men who try to make it happen with the family! beat the odds and land mines united snakes of America has built into every law and legislation.you as a original Master creation of the creator fight through all that!🫡and think you are going to get your happy ever after.You will surely come to the realization There is no happily ever Afters!! who are we kidding we lock ourselves into everything under the sun just to work ourselves to death and be called one of the good ones?!?!I pos this question what does it mean to be that in 2023?
    Come On What GIF by Bernardson.com
    who said it had to be that way?
     

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    I am not sure I am understanding what you are saying. Like you don't think black men are valued enough in life in America to work hard for anything? The way I see it is you work for yourself and your family. The bars are set and life is harder for the average black man in America, no doubt, but being pessimistic over it and giving up, not trying to achieve anything for yourself is just letting WS win.
     

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    ...early signs of depression possibly dude, not meant jokingly. Nothing wrong with speaking with someone (Black male) professionally about it.
    I went through a time like once for a brief period. My job sucked, life sucked, gained a lot of weight. I changed everything, job, location, etc. I'm NOT saying you should do that but I recognized after the fact for what it was.