When I was in high school, I was always very shy. I would rarely approach girls to talk to them. It would have to be blatantly obvious that she was giving me choosing vibes for me to say something. I didn't want to get rejected so I would shy away from talking to them.
When I got older though I learned a bit more and became less shy. I eventually got to the point where I was just bold and didn't care about getting rejected. I just figured worst case scenario is that she says no, or she is taken. If that happened then, I just move on and don't worry about it. She has the right to turn me down just like I have the right to turn a lady I'm not interested in down. My thinking changed to that I could see a girl that I really thought was hot and I was too shy to say something, and I miss out on a great opportunity. I decided I wasn't going to let any opportunity pass me up. So, If I was interested even a little bit, I was shooting my shot.
Social media has ruined us. We can't just be human beings anymore. If a woman is attractive, then yes guys are going to glance or look at her. That's the whole definition of attractive. They are attracted to you thus they will look.
If they aren't looking, then it probably means you are effing ugly!
But now even if a woman is attractive and there is a guy that she may have been interested in she won't know if he is also interested because he is afraid to even look in her direction.
So, if he is that afraid to even look at her then what is the likelihood that he would actually approach her to talk? Very low.
I don't understand how people ever hook up now. Just the statistics of it don't work. Unless you are very aesthecally attractive as a guy online usually doesn't work. If a woman is attractive it is likely that she is getting hundreds of DMs online. With that being she is going to pick the cream of the crop as far as looks, finances and anything else that she is choosy about.
So that is a very difficult field to have to navigate. Simply approaching women face to face out in public isn't really a socially safe thing to do either. So exactly how are guys supposed to meet women?
And I think that is why so many women are remaining single because guys that may have been interested aren't approaching.
Women doing this for clicks and views need to stop because they aren't just hurting themselves. They are hurting all women's chances to meet someone!
