Great points. I’m hearing that Black men are not as accepted though due to violent nature viewed here and media( why are other races using media as fact?🙄)but if the numbers match then, hey. Great discussion!Yeah, also Black women are the least accepted in the white community. A white man marrying a Black woman is the same as turning his back on his own race in white supremacy.
A Latina, Asian, Arab, even a wife from India is far more accepted in their community. I'm not saying an Arab or Persian wife is welcomed with open arms but far more acceptable than a black wife.
Also, that white man lives with the 'terror' that his seed will be black forever.
Actually so far , responses have been helpful. It is helpful because we can’t complain about white supremacy but are attracted to it. These conversations only become counterproductive when we respond without logic, so I appreciate the stats😀and… I see black love all around me as stated before.Respectfully often these types of comments and postings are not useful for our community because of the subjective and individualistic nature of the responses. "War of the sexes" is a divide and control technique as old as time.
The mass majority of black men are married to and live with black women. In 2021 only 15% percent of married Black men were married to non-Black women which is unchanged from 2017 but up from 11% in 2010 and 8% in 2000. About 8% of married Black men were married to White women in 2021 and 4% were married to Hispanic women which is not a race.
My question is if 85% of black men are married to black women why all the noise as if the majority of blackmen are outside the race? Who benefits from the false accusation that "all the blackmen are with white women"? It is not true!
There was evidence of an increase of Black men “marrying out” of their racial demographic between 2010 and 2017, however that percent has remained steady since. In fact, the Pew Research Center released a report finding that 25% of Black male newlyweds in 2013 married non-Black women compared to 12% of Black women who “married out”. However Asian women and Native Americans still have higher rates of interracial marriage. Black women were the least likely to marry non-Black men at only 7% in 2017, and only 4/% were married to White men.
The facts are clear as day but the conversation brings in all kinds of things that are just not helpful.
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BLACK MARRIAGE - BlackDemographics.com
Black Marriage in America | Statistics: 30% of African Americans were married compared to 48% of all Americans. Half or 50% have never beenblackdemographics.com
But wanted to pass it off as if there were no Black men available what a shame. If you want to swirl be honest about it.The older black generation had/have a white acceptance/white proximity complex.
It sounds like she dated out and found someone to be happy with.
Right. Very shameful that Belafonte said that and men like him who say hurtful things publicly and privately. But… at least those men admit they swirl and are honest that it’s their holy grail.🤷🏽♀️But wanted to pass it off as if there were no Black men available what a shame. If you want to swirl be honest about it.
Damn. Personally I’d much rather be with a Black chick if she was that fine. Of course her personality is important too…
I am just learning about Eartha Kitt’s dating life and why she married a white man. Reportedly the Black man she wanted( Belafonte) lifted her “ from his bed and said a Black woman can do NOTHING for him.” Plus other black men she desired just did not desire her even with her beauty and fame.
Thoughts??
Personality is top priority importance😀Damn. Personally I’d much rather be with a Black chick if she was that fine. Of course her personality is important too…
4 million black men marry black women annually. White men marry 200k black women. And 58% of those marriages end in divorce.But wanted to pass it off as if there were no Black men available what a shame. If you want to swirl be honest about it.
Hi! This circles back to Men getting on code for sure, and like you said, “ sistas will[then] get on code as well. As far as the stats of “ four million black men marrying”… the numbers again for white men and black women will always be lower because Black women prefer Black men. I cannot tell you how many white men are tired of hearing it or who stopped trying to approach Black women altogether due to this🤷🏽♀️Something I've heard said and I'm talking about us as brothers. I've heard it said 'The behavior of women in a culture (group, etc) is a reflection of the men'
Arab, Korean, Indian and other women around the world don't do ratchet shyt generally because 99% of the eligible men aren't going to marry any woman who is on that ratchet shyt. Ultimately, my brothers, our sisters are a reflection of us. Once we as a collective get more of us on code and right, sisters got no choice but to come correct as well.