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What's your deal breaker in a relationship?

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Aside from the normal stuff like being trustworthy, I don't like when someone makes a point to be negative in every situation. I get that not everything can positive, but if you're constantly focusing on the negatives, it frustrates me. I want to be able to excited about something without worrying about your negative opinion.
 
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    fastandcurious said:
    Aside from the normal stuff like being trustworthy, I don't like when someone makes a point to be negative in every situation. I get that not everything can positive, but if you're constantly focusing on the negatives, it frustrates me. I want to be able to excited about something without worrying about your negative opinion.
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    Absolutely. Another deal breaker is someone who complacent and doesn’t want to become better. I want to be my best self everyday and so I’m not compatible with people who are just comfortable where they are.
     
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    eclipsed said:
    Drug use and excessive drinking. I can't deal with that stuff. I have been around both and dated both and it never ends well. I was with someone who actually was stealing from me. It just isn't worth it.
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    Of course not. It adds stress to a relationship.
     
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    Jay said:
    Absolutely. Another deal breaker is someone who complacent and doesn’t want to become better. I want to be my best self everyday and so I’m not compatible with people who are just comfortable where they are.
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    And then want you to take care of them while they sit on their rear end doing nothing.
     
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    fastandcurious said:
    Aside from the normal stuff like being trustworthy, I don't like when someone makes a point to be negative in every situation. I get that not everything can positive, but if you're constantly focusing on the negatives, it frustrates me. I want to be able to excited about something without worrying about your negative opinion.
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    Yes. Nobody likes a negative nancy. A person might be trying to talk about how an idea can work, and the negative nancy will talk about why it cannot work.