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  1. Goldilocks

    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    But do women need to be financially dependent on a man to need him?
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    What Generation are you?

    I am not sure. I think I am a millennial
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    When did you "wake up"?

    I was young. I don’t remember the age but only in the last few years to I realize racism isn’t hold the majority of BP back.
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    Dr. Umar Speaks on Black Conservatives

    Umar is a scammer who tells BP what they want to hear to fund his gambling problem
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    Sista Came Out Of Those Skates

    That is creepybwshocked
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    Blind dating, ever do it?

    I would do a blind date if I could at least see a picture.
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    First impressions

    You wouldn’t like me. I keep my nails short and unpainted because I have a physical job. I just look for general presentation. Are you clean and do you smell good.? I don’t really try to nit pick a person apart. However, I am not really a fan of guys with long hair. I won’t write someone off...
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    From my dating experience men prefer dependent women. They like the feeling of women having a solid “need” for them beyond emotions. Which is funny because at they same time they don’t want to feel used. A lot of men want to be looked upon as the hero. I usually get 2 reactions out of men...
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    Do you think marriage is dying out?

    Honestly I never knew people had this huge issues with marriage until I came to the internet. I know a ton of happily married people. I have been to quite a few weddings and know of very few divorces. And the people I know who have been divorced all got remarried. This “issue” isn’t reflected in...
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    Differences between dating and marriage

    Marriage is a combining of financial resources, family and just life in general. Marriage is an actual commitment to spend your life together. Huge difference. Dating is not commitment. I would never buy a house, have children or make any huge life decisions with someone I am dating.
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    High Standards In Dating

    Where do you plan on meeting these type of men?
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    Would you avoid moving to a spot where you know you'd run into an ex?

    I wouldn't let the past keep me from the future. But I do understand your reservations
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    Thanks for the kind words. I’m not disheartened. I know plenty good men. Just making an observation. But all women needing to change before the majority of men change isn’t really a realistic option.
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    It’s all good. I was just sharing my personal experience.
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    Ever date someone who cheated on you with a friend or family member?

    No that has never happened thankfully. People can be so heartlessly selfish.
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    High Standards In Dating

    Yeah but men and women want different things. If you let men tell it being sweet, nice, somewhat attractive and loyal is their only real requirements
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    This is an interesting post. You make is sound like the majority of men aren’t worth the time of day. But those are the men the majority of women have to date. This is a bit off topic but I just find it odd how men (not you) will easily dismiss those type of men as if they aren’t worth...
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    Imma be honest with you. I feel like you posted this video so you could continue a conversation that I had exited from because you wanted to continue to force your view. You continually ignored the context of the conversation. This conversation is literally about money and material things but...
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    I don't put myself in that category. Instead of just communicating and observing, they (in this situation men) do. They make assumptions based on the own personal negative expectations aka baggage. I'm not responsible for another's baggage. The point about the "natural order" is nice. But I...
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    Do Men Want a Boss Woman?

    My point was that a woman just having more is often considered “competing.” BW specifically are always classified as these horrible women who just talk about money all day and put down men with their accomplishments. I have found from personal experience that the “competition” is often...