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It's of importance to me, that's why I asked.

I think men organizing and having their own space can inspire a neighborhood collectively. Something about men organizing, grouping together to set community standards and rules, makes the people of said community feel safe and looked after. You see this a lot with mobs and gangs, but it doesn't...

This is true. They like to allow predators to run around our communities and mess with innocent or low offense people

sanaalathanlaughhahaha what the hell

I really don't know what to say. I need to speak to some men to get honest answers. Men say that they aren't attracted to this behavior. Is that true? I'm not even speaking on the cheating, I'm referring to the language and callous behavior. I'm wondering, because as a woman, I know what there...

I can't help be notice how quick and able everyone was protecting this killer. Seems strange. They could have reacted a second slower to let him get a few in. Funny when they protect us and when they don't

Do you all think the perpetrator was FBA? I'm starting to notice things.

I don't want me kids to date out either. But we need to live in a place where they can actually meet black people for marriage. They're young, so who knows where we will be in 22 years or so.

I was running into the fake NOI men who had 27 black girl friends then tried to tell me that Hispanic and Asian women were black too. Just the women, not the men I guess

My kids are very young so they aren't close to dating, but we live in Hawaii and I do wonder what their options will be. If they did date interracially, Polynesian wouldn't be the worst choice I guess, but I don't want them to date interracially at all. But black people aren't really raising...

This is what you have to do unfortunately. Being fake pro black is a thing many men are trying out now, and in some ways I think always have. I've ran into a few.

I dated this guy who I thought was The Man, before I met my husband who turned out to be The One. Anyway, this guy said all of the right things. Then one day I was talking to him about kids, specifically a son. He said he didn't care what race of wife his son had and my vision of him just...

I don't understand what black people are doing. I'm so embarrassed by this behavior and it's really unsafe to be around people who think like this. I think we think we're keeping our kids safe, but we are really putting then in grave danger by not telling them the truth

Yes it was really bad. No my mother thinks I'm like Farrakan or something and make too much of things. She doesn't even think she's doing anything wrong. She thinks that's just the way you're supposed to act. She means well I guess, but she doesn't understand that we're not living in Jim Crow...

Thank you. It is difficult because they can feel me keeping an eye on them and I know they don't like it. You're right, I'm more concerned with my children being aware and confident than I am making old people feel good.

These things are so common. I used to were clothes with Marilyn Monroe on them not understanding the context. I knew I was a confident and beautiful black woman, but I didn't gather the image and message I was sending others, especially little black girls. I had to check myself.

I may not be interpreting this article correctly. I'm not sure who this ball player is, but in interested to see who else he has called out publicly. I'd like to have a discussion about western patriarchy and why that seems to be the one western value that black men want to hold onto. The...

You're so right. I want to spend more time talking to the youth. It's sad though, because parents do not want their kids around people like me. We are terrified of the B1 message. I'm not even sure that we're intelligent enough to understand that we would have to do for ourselves under B1. I...

Exactly. You can't defeat someone who knows how to speak facts.

I think with practice we can all learn this style of wit and speech. I think it comes from a place of empowerment inside.