Our brother RCNAL dropped this gem and I would love to hear your thoughts. Long story short, he says if you want to compare Black women's femininity to other races then you need to compare our masculinity to other races of men. It's a minute long and then give your $0.02.
My opinion is that it is MF fact. Black men that don't have a liberation mindset are useless I don't care how rah rah they are. If you are not looking to control and maintain your dominion then it means you're looking for another man to do it.
If you're looking for another man to do it, then that man is your daddy.