I would have accepted the ice cream date. Men and women these days are allowing the internet to dictate what an appropriate date is. Who would turn down sweet ice cream on a warm day?🤷🏽♀️
Apparently the bird brain on the bottom. The biggest fuck boys are always going the extra mile with their tax returns. Everything that glitters is not gold especially if it’s a grill.
Because she sees a date as an opportunity to come up on a dinner rather than an opportunity to get to know someone.
If you are looking for something serious No, they are not. Standard get to know you time and to ask more detailed questions face to face so there are no misconceptions. If things are going well, I have offered to take her to lunch. all good then comes the second date, I would be planning something fun and lunch or dinner. Had a girl use me for free food and I NEVER let that happen again. When I a person wants to move too fast it's a big red flag, they just want to use you.
When I was in my early 20’s I took advantage of every free lunch or dinner that came my way. I didn’t learn until my heart was broken by a crush that only used me for sex. It didnt set on me right away but when it did I felt sorry for the guys I used.
First impressions can be wrong, but I do think that a small date should be the first date because it will weed certain people out. What I mean is that those people who think a man is supposed to spend a huge amount of money on a first date.
Exactly. She gets free stuff while pretending to like you. But ice cream is not anywhere as high as going to a nice restaurant so even if the woman uses the man, it is only a small amount of money he lost. This is one reason why some men take their woman on a date to a park or somewhere that does not have food.
Yep. Entirely too much TV. What you see on TV is not necessarily the real world. Propaganda. That reality of hitting the wall will sit in sooner or later.
Yep. That man wants some of that kitty cat when he takes a woman to a very nice restaurant.
Sensible post. I have seen so many videos where women have said that a man needs to take them to a nice restaurant on the first date.
Much respect as well. I've learned that everyone has their breaking point.
I agree with you Jay since a small date is a way to see where the other person is coming from. Women who seemed to be turned off by having a date like this will not be a good match for the man anyways.
Jay... I totally agree with you... speaking from a man's perspective, if a man takes a woman out on an ice cream date, he's interested in that woman and not trying to get between her thighs (yet)... on the other side of that coin, if a man takes a woman out to Steak 48, he's trying to get BUCKY NEKKID afterwards... a woman shouldn't gauge a man's interest by where he takes her on a date... they're watching too many YouTube videos...
