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Are you someone who holds a grudge?

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I guess it depends on what happened but I feel like I typically do hold grudges. I've never been great at being someone who forgives and forgets lol But I know that can help if it's something that continues to effect you. If you don't hold a grudge, what are some things you do that to help get over something?
 

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    I guess it depends on what happened but I feel like I typically do hold grudges. I've never been great at being someone who forgives and forgets lol But I know that can help if it's something that continues to effect you. If you don't hold a grudge, what are some things you do that to help get over something?
    I don’t hold grudges but if you cross me I will never forget.
     

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    Yes I can, I once not talked to my mom for 10 years, and she only lives 4 blocks from me. It depends on what the friction is over, but I can hold grudges all the way to my grave.
    I'm the type of person that can cut someone off and keep it off, no matter who you are.
    I do talk to my mom now though... Can't cut mom off.
     

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    Yes I can, I once not talked to my mom for 10 years, and she only lives 4 blocks from me. It depends on what the friction is over, but I can hold grudges all the way to my grave.
    I'm the type of person that can cut someone off and keep it off, no matter who you are.
    I do talk to my mom now though... Can't cut mom off.
    Damn 10 years bruh she must have crossed you for real to be banished that long.
     

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    I’m too chill to hold grudges. I fuck with you or I don’t It’s pretty cut and dry. I prefer indifference over hatred it takes way less energy. But to be honest I be feeling some type of way for a week or so and then it goes to indifference.

    Absolutely 😏
    Thia beef shit is everlastinglaughingblackguy
    Complete with thick scars, brothas knifing each other up in prison yards…drama where does it stop?