But also men aren’t responsible for a woman’s orgasm, she is. We are the catalyst of it but if a woman can’t get herself there, there is nothing a man can do about it.There are plenty of men who think their penises are just to satisfy themselves. Few men have the magic touch, tip, tongue, finger, or whatever to make a sister orgasm. Not having an orgasm and not being satisfied is the norm for many women of all ages I know.