I was om times Square a Spanish guy asked how do he get black women he called them over the black women ran from me and went to him and looked at me with utmost disgust in front of him and I asked him what what wanted to do with them he said he just wanted to f.ck and left ever since then seeing hoe they beg non bm to like them I can never look at them the same
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Bruh this ain’t a good look. What do you look like? Is your money right? Is your confidence right?
If the roles reversed and Black men were ok too white women would be kissing our feet. Women flock to where they think they will get food, shelter, and resource.
I have a hard time believing they if you was holding like you supposed.
In addition you in New York so then women probably not even the same ethnicity as you.
No ghe guy was broke like me and they just glanced at my face and ran behind him they did not size me up at all I did not do not one thing to neither of them at all and I seen be run behind literally anyone non bm who will glance at them thats the thing that kills most of the issues I had I literally did nothing to them I was on a train talking to this girl on the seven train all the Spanish people turned around and looked dead at us I noticed when a black man is dating or even talking to a non bw every race will turn around and have something against it I don't know how true the racepill blackpill is but don't know they give us a black tax and I hewr that black women standard will be lower for a wm then a bm even when u look at dating apps stats we are the lowest as far as desirability it's not looks cause most people look average I can see ww doing this but literally every race
Your issue is that you’re broke dog. I’m a 36 year old Black man, decent income, motivated and successful and had no problem pulling on and offline.
Nigga I can sense how down you feel about yourself over text…you’re resonating that shit in person.
I was once there especially after breaking up with my son’s mom and was broke because had a crippling child support payment.
You don’t need to worry about dating. You need to get YOU together. You don’t have to frame of mind necessary to attract women.
It may sound harsh but I’m just telling you the real.
Boo boo I do not understand what you are trying to say. You were talking to the women and then a Puerto Rican asked you how to get Black women and then the Black women ran from you?
No a Spanish guy ask how to get black women and then he called some over they ran from me behind each other did not even size me up and then the girl he was talking to gave me a look of utter disgust and walked away and then I ask him what he was planning om doing he say fuck and then leftBoo boo I do not understand what you are trying to say. You were talking to the women and then a Puerto Rican asked you how to get Black women and then the Black women ran from you?
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Definitely need to have a confident mindset. Not a thirsty or needy one. You're exuding a lot of desperate guy energy even through the screens, sweetie. You need to know who you are, and what you bring to the table and that you are capable of being the kind of man a woman needs to feel safe, loved and valued.
You need confidence for one and you won’t have confidence if your life ain’t straight. Women want to be with a leader who will protect them, provide for them, and keep the family emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially balanced. You cannot provide that and women see it so they are repulsed by you.
Women see you like you see a 600 pound non-ambulatory woman. You need to understand what drives a woman before you know how to speak to them.
Yes bro. You appear that way on here. But that doesn’t have to be who you are. You just have to fix the fundamentals.
Get a skill, get a a good job, get some savings, and you’ll feel a difference instantly. Then you add in some new clothes, you go out a couple times and start attracting women and you feel like a million bucks.
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Okay, It's not just me then.Boo boo I do not understand what you are trying to say. You were talking to the women and then a Puerto Rican asked you how to get Black women and then the Black women ran from you?
I was thinking that too. Grammar was a bit too chopped up. No sentences. Misspellings and just words thrown in where they don't seem to belong.
I was wanting to give feedback but couldn't understand the point that was trying to be made.
Depending on the kind of confidence that you exude, these ladies want high value men and when you are not one, just know that more will reject you for other men. Not necessarily for a white dude. So, push to earn more, dress fine and smell nice as these are the things modern women look at before falling in love as well.